Partying is apart of the college experience, right? For some, students feel the urge to cram all week and party all weekend. On the other hand, some students enjoy staying in on the weekends or doing other sorts of activities. The thing is, the people who party need to realize the other side of it, is okay. Just because you don't feel the need to go out, doesn't mean that you're not "cool".

I'm aware how going out can seem all flashy and it's fun to dress up and feel confident. For some, thats what students love to do and want to do. For others, they would prefer to be with friends doing campus activities, venturing around town, or trying that new restaurant. I know it sounds a little cliche, but it is an issue on all college campuses. Almost as though, if someone asks if you party, you are in a way expected to say yes.

There are so many college events planned for students to not feel as though going out is the only fun option. Last week, I participated in a bingo night and then a tie dye night the next. I personally had more fun participating in the "stern(sober) night life" events than I ever did at a party. Sometimes it's what your body and mind needs is just a simple Netflix night in, ordering pizza or Chinese with your gal pals. I'm not saying never go out and have fun ever again. It's just interesting to look at the other aspect of it and see how the word "fun" can have so many different meanings and context to it. Next time you don't feel comfortable going out or simply don't want to, never feel bad saying no. College is so diverse and I bet if you've ever felt uncomfortable about answering the question, "do you party?" Just remember your life is your choice.