When you’re in high school, and sometimes the first couple of years of college, girls always go for the jerk. I don’t know why, and no other girl does either, but it happens. We can’t explain it, that’s just how life works.

During the years of high school and college, we fall for the guys that hardly ever text us back, constantly talk to other girls, and are basically just an all around jerk. However, this phase will not last, and if it does, get some help. Eventually, between the ages of 20 and 23-ish, girls realize that they are worth so much more than the guy that treats them like dirt. Around this age, most of us are looking to find something permanent; someone that we can settle down with in years to come. And, this is why the nice guy will always win.

Once a girl gets to an age where she realizes she deserves to be treated better than she has been treated in the past, it's time to start looking for the nice guy, instead of falling for a jerk. Once she finds the right one, she will completely forget about all the guys that treated her horribly in the past, and she won’t ever look back. And why would she? She has a guy she loves and one that treats her great too! It’s not realistic to imagine spending the rest of your life with the guy that treats you badly. If you're dealing with a guy who can't stay committed to you for longer than a couple of weeks, who always makes you cry, or who's loyalty you constantly question, then it’s time for you to look for the nice guy.

To the boys who act this way toward a girl, eventually she will realize she can do better, and she will leave you. A future with you won’t be realistic. So if you really want to be with this girl, be the guy that she deserves. The nice guy is the one that treats a girl with respect, is loyal and committed, and will always make sure his girl is happy. When she finds a guy with these qualities, she will know that she has found the person that she can have a future with. Girls might not act like it in the beginning, but we want a man that we can count on, one we can picture marrying and having children with. If we have to worry about loyalty now, odds are that when it’s time to settle down and build a life, you won't be the first pick. Instead of worrying about being cool, or worrying about getting all the girls, worry about the girl that you actually care about and actually want to be with. Everyone says nice guys always lose, but you heard it here first, that is not the case. In the end, nice guys will always win.