The majority of society assumes that our generation is anti-social. While some things are meant solely for the self and being alone at times isn't necessarily negative, it seems as if lately people genuinely do not care about getting to know each other. Starting college has opened up my eyes and mind to a whole new world, especially people and different personalities. College has made me realize how important it is to have a solid group of friends.
Other than family members, your friends are often the ones rooting for your success. The friends you surround yourself with help build and shape you to the person you are or will become, and vice versa. Find friends who will make you a better you.
Good friends should be there through thick and thin. Good friends are by your side through the worst, best, and craziest times of your life. Find friends who will be along for the ride.
Friends don't judge you, and I sure as hell know mine don't. Friends love your weirdness and will do all the random stuff you want to do with you. Find friends you can be yourself with and laugh with.
We all have our bad days. Friends will pick up their phone and talk to you when you need it. Your friends will always have a shoulder to cry on and will help you when your down. Find friends who will put a smile on your face.
Believe it or not, friends fight. Arguments happen and are sometimes unavoidable. Getting on someone's nerves is normal. But, good friends will always apologize and not hold grudges. Find friends that aren't afraid to put you in your place and who won't get upset when you put them in theirs. And for the love of God, please don't fight over a stupid boy.
Whether it's through greek life, clubs, sports, or your dorm hall, find those people! You don't have to have a giant squad; that's not what matters. What matters are the ones who are genuine and trustworthy. These are the people you're going through life with, so make the most of it. Surround yourself with fun, loving, caring people. Surround yourself with your ~homies~.
