Why Having A Roommate Is Important

Why Having A Roommate Is Important

Roommates are the best and worst people that you will ever have in your life.
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There are a lot of people out there that say that one of the challenges of college is the "roommate situation". However, I personally think that having roommates was the best part of college so far! Even though the process of choosing a roommate, the challenge of trying to live together, and the whole no-privacy thing are hard in the beginning, the rewards greatly outweigh the negatives of it all. Having a roommate also teaches you valuable lessons in sharing, compromise and dealing with things that you might not have had to deal with otherwise.

I could go on and on about how much I absolutely adore my roommates. One of my roommates I've lived with since freshman year and the other I've lived with for nearly a year, and they are the best people I know. But even if you don't have roommates like mine, there are many reasons why having these people in your life is a great idea in general!

1. It's practice for living with people in the future

I mean, most people end up living with someone else at least once during their lives. Whether it's just a roommate, a significant other, or even a pet, it's always good practice to learn the annoying habits that might surface after awhile. Whether it's leaving the toilet seat up, not cleaning up after themselves, leaving dishes in the sink, or keeping their room dirty at all times, you are prepared for all of that if you live with someone during college. You get used to the clutter, so it's not as annoying when you move in with someone else.

2. You learn about your own habits

It's not the best to learn that you are also someone who has gross habits or tendencies, but it's a good lesson to learn early on. I know it's not the best situation, but let's be honest: if you don't learn about your own problems, how can you ever bring up and deal with other people's problems? Not only that, but you can also learn from those you live with what bothers them about your own style of living. This way, you'll be able to work on that before you get your own house or you're living with someone whose opinion you care about more than your silly roommate.

3. You make a lot of friends

This might not be the case for everyone, but a lot of the time if you and your roommate get along with each other, you usually introduce them to your friends and they introduce you to theirs. Often times, this leads to a lot of friendships and a lot of good times in the apartment/dorm/house. I'm going to be honest, but so far I've made some of my best friends in college through my roommates.

4. They are there through the best and worst times

Another amazing thing about having a roommate is the fact that they are always around. Now, I know that really doesn't sound like the best thing, but if you're having a bad day, you have someone there that will watch bad movies with you, listen to you vent, and eat too much food alongside you. They will also be there when you are in a great mood and just want to go for a walk and have a great time! I loved always having someone around to talk to and spend time with.

There are a lot of reasons why having roommates is the best thing ever, and I could never truly write them all down on paper. But it's so true – roommates are the best, and I will forever love the memories I have made with the two I've lived with so far.

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6 Things I Didn't Really Need in My Freshman Dorm, And 6 Things I Wish I Brought Instead

I promise you, being Pinterest-worthy just doesn't make sense in a dorm.
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As I packed up my dorm room and unpacked it all once I got home, I kinda felt stupid. I moved in with 2 cars full of stuff (yes, I know how extra that sounds and yes, it was indeed that extra) and I didn't end up needing half of it. Now, I'm swimming in stuff I need to get rid of while holding on to the stuff I didn't realize I would need and ended up buying mid-year. No matter how much you think you know everything, first-time dorm residents, please listen.

6 things I DIDN'T need but swore I did

1. All my personal books

I mean, I'm an English major and I love to read, but no one, and I mean no one, A) has free time and B) uses that free time to read in college.

2. Keurig

There's a coffee shop I can use my cafe credits at on my way to class. I never woke up early enough to brew my own coffee, and I never craved it bad enough in the afternoon to feel like I needed to make my own immediately. It was nice to make tea with though.

3. Dishes and Silverware/Excessive Mugs

All you need is 1 mug and a couple of water bottles. I promise you paper plates and plastic silverware are all you need.

4. An overabundance of office supplies

I didn't use all those fancy office supplies in high school, so as much as I love them, I have yet to reach for them in college.

5. T.V.

The T.V. I had was only slightly bigger than my laptop screen and the wifi at my dorm wasn't good enough for streaming. I hardly used it, but I know others used theirs a lot. Just a personal preference!

6. Tons of wall art

I totally believe wall art has the power to make a dorm room feel less institutional, but I wish I had brought more pictures from home to make my room personal. Pinterest dorm rooms just aren't real, and they aren't what you want when you're homesick.

6 things I wish I had bought before school started

1. ID Lanyard

I personally love these ones from Vera Bradley , but honestly, any way you can carry your ID, money, and keys all in one is a life changer.

2. Earplugs/Eye Mask

Dorms are loud even during quiet hours and sometimes your roommate stays up later or gets up earlier than you do. Amazon couldn't ship these to me fast enough.

3. Wireless Headphones/Earbuds

Personally, I'm an earbuds girl, but either one does the trick. It's nice to not have to deal with cords and to be able to connect to any of your devices without an adapter.

4. Laptop Shell/Stickers

Almost everyone ends up ordering stickers to put on their laptop to express themselves to those around them. On a practical level though, you're probably going to have the same laptop as 5+ other students in your lecture and you will probably throw your laptop in a bag and run at some point. A shell and some stickers will provide more protection than you realize. Check out http://www.redbubble.com for some great options.

5. Small vacuum

This is especially important if you get a rug. Sweeping is not pleasant, and the vacuums at your dorm are probably older than you are.

6. Pictures from home

Like I said before, wall art isn't going to comfort you when you want to go home. A picture of your dog or best friend sure will though.


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I'm Not The Person I Was In High School And I'm Not Sorry I Changed

I'm sorry, the old me can't come to the phone right now.

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If those who knew me in high school hung out with me now, they probably wouldn't recognize me. If my friends from college hung out with me around two years ago, they probably wouldn't recognize me. It's safe to say I've changed... a lot. I definitely find the change to be for the better and I couldn't be happier with the person I've become

In high school, I would sit at home every night anxiously waiting to leave and go out. Now, honestly, going out is the last thing I want to do any night of the week. While everyone in college is at a fraternity party or at the bars, I prefer to sit at home on the couch, watching Netflix with my boyfriend. That's an ideal night for me and it is exactly the opposite of what I wanted to do a couple of years ago. There's nothing wrong with going out and partying, it's just not what I want to do anymore.

I craved attention in high school. I went to the parties and outings so I could be in Snapchats and photos, just so people would know I was there. I hung out with certain groups of people just so I could say I was "friends" with so-and-so who was so very popular. I wanted to be known and I wanted to be cool.

Now, I couldn't care less. I go to the bars or the parties if I really feel like it or if my friends make me feel bad enough for never going anywhere that I finally decide to show up. It's just not my scene anymore and I no longer worry about missing out.

If you could look back at me during my junior year of high school, you probably would've found me searching for the best-ranked party schools and colleges with the best nearby clubs or bars. Now, you can find me eating snacks on the couch on a Friday night watching the parties through other peoples' Snapchats.

Some may say that I'm boring now, and while I agree that my life is a little less adventurous now than it was in high school, I don't regret the lifestyle changes I've made. I feel happier, I feel like a better person, I feel much more complete. I'm not sorry that I've changed since high school and I'm not sorry that I'm not living the typical "college lifestyle." I don't see anything wrong with that life, it's just not what makes me happy and it's not what I want to do anymore.

I've become a different person since high school and I couldn't be happier about it. I have a lot that's contributed to the change, but my boyfriend definitely was the main factor as he showed me that staying in can be a million times better than a night out. My interests and my social cravings have completely transitioned into that of an 80-year-old grandma, but I don't regret it.

Change doesn't have to be a bad thing. In fact, it can bring a lot more happiness and comfort. The transition from high school to college is drastic, but you can also use it as an opportunity to transition from one lifestyle to another. I don't regret the lifestyle flip I made and I couldn't be less apologetic about it.

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