Why Can't We Just Be Nice To One Another?
Start writing a post
Student Life

Why Can't We Just Be Nice To One Another?

It's seriously not that hard.

582
Why Can't We Just Be Nice To One Another?

In recent news, there are awful people in the world. If you need examples, Brock Turner (among every other rapist out there), the man who shot Christina Grimmie, Omar Seddique Mateen (man who killed 50 people in a gay club) and Donald Trump (no explanation necessary) are just a few. Reading articles about shootings, rape, terrorist attacks and things as such makes me feel hopeless for society.

There are people in our everyday lives that make life harder than it needs to be. These people are nowhere near as malicious as the people stated above, but if we could all try to get along with each other at an everyday life level, then maybe the world wouldn't be such a frightening place.

We encounter a lot of people every day (more than we think), and it can become so easy to pass through life with a monotonous presence. Yes, it can be easy to not care for a stranger, but showing interest in someone could mean the world to them.

One day when I was at work, the store happened to be very busy and I had been serving customers that were, well, unpleasant, to put it nicely. I was stressed because of this, and it really took a toll on my attitude. I didn't greet customers as I usually would, and I had a frown plastered on my face. Once the rush slowed down, the store was empty, and I had my back turned to the front door. I heard the door open, and I was immediately mad at whoever the customer was just because they had the audacity to want ice cream. When I turned around I saw a little girl looking at the ice cream. I walked up to her and said, "Hello." She looked up at me with the biggest and most infectious smile. My anger dissolved immediately, and I smiled back with the same passion. This little girl who I had never met completely changed my day with one smile (and I gave her extra chocolate sauce and whipped cream on her milkshake in return).

For the rest of my shift, I was smiling at every customer regardless of their attitude. Just this small interaction made me want to be nice to everyone, and some customers came into the store with a frown and left with a smile (I give myself the satisfaction that it was because of me and not because they had ice cream in their hand).

It goes to show that kindness really is a chain reaction. We can't see what is going on in strangers' lives, but they could be having a horrible day and a smile could change their entire day. We all know how it feels to be miserable, so why do we implement sorrow in others? It's a lose-lose situation. It's as simple as maneuvering the corners of your mouth up, and you could bring happiness into someone's day.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
houses under green sky
Photo by Alev Takil on Unsplash

Small towns certainly have their pros and cons. Many people who grow up in small towns find themselves counting the days until they get to escape their roots and plant new ones in bigger, "better" places. And that's fine. I'd be lying if I said I hadn't thought those same thoughts before too. We all have, but they say it's important to remember where you came from. When I think about where I come from, I can't help having an overwhelming feeling of gratitude for my roots. Being from a small town has taught me so many important lessons that I will carry with me for the rest of my life.

Keep Reading...Show less
​a woman sitting at a table having a coffee
nappy.co

I can't say "thank you" enough to express how grateful I am for you coming into my life. You have made such a huge impact on my life. I would not be the person I am today without you and I know that you will keep inspiring me to become an even better version of myself.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Waitlisted for a College Class? Here's What to Do!

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

91234
college students waiting in a long line in the hallway
StableDiffusion

Course registration at college can be a big hassle and is almost never talked about. Classes you want to take fill up before you get a chance to register. You might change your mind about a class you want to take and must struggle to find another class to fit in the same time period. You also have to make sure no classes clash by time. Like I said, it's a big hassle.

This semester, I was waitlisted for two classes. Most people in this situation, especially first years, freak out because they don't know what to do. Here is what you should do when this happens.

Keep Reading...Show less
a man and a woman sitting on the beach in front of the sunset

Whether you met your new love interest online, through mutual friends, or another way entirely, you'll definitely want to know what you're getting into. I mean, really, what's the point in entering a relationship with someone if you don't know whether or not you're compatible on a very basic level?

Consider these 21 questions to ask in the talking stage when getting to know that new guy or girl you just started talking to:

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

Challah vs. Easter Bread: A Delicious Dilemma

Is there really such a difference in Challah bread or Easter Bread?

66181
loaves of challah and easter bread stacked up aside each other, an abundance of food in baskets
StableDiffusion

Ever since I could remember, it was a treat to receive Easter Bread made by my grandmother. We would only have it once a year and the wait was excruciating. Now that my grandmother has gotten older, she has stopped baking a lot of her recipes that require a lot of hand usage--her traditional Italian baking means no machines. So for the past few years, I have missed enjoying my Easter Bread.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments