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Who Do You Become When You Lose Control?

There's a difference between having a good time and not remembering those times.

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Who Do You Become When You Lose Control?

Every single time you go out, it's important to understand when enough is enough. The moment you begin to feel as if you are losing control, try and cut yourself off from putting any more substances into your system. There is a huge difference between a slight buzz and utter intoxication, and if you are not careful, you could end up doing something you might seriously regret.

A lot of people come to school eager to experience what nightlife has to offer them. And they should be. A majority of us were already informed of what lies out there. Whether it be via movies or captivating real footage, many individuals already carry with them an inclination to taste this once forbidden fruit. The experiences you craft with your friends will be memories that you will remember for the rest of your life. However, if you're not careful, these potential extraordinary moments could become ephemeral the moment you lose control of yourself.

There's nothing more painful than waking up the next morning not knowing the events that transpired the night before. Bits and pieces can be recovered through text messages and your friends who were with you, but only you can put your puzzle back together. The moment you start to lose control, puzzle pieces begin fleeting by the second. You may think you've recollected every moment you may have lost, but these moments will never be portrayed with 100 percent accuracy.

When you lose control, you're no longer the one making your own decisions. Sooner or later, you become the puppet, and alcohol becomes the puppeteer pulling the strings. Your actions are no longer your own, and although you can argue that you were not in control, others around you will still see it as a reflection of yourself. As exhilarating as these experiences feel now, there is no point if you cannot reflect on these moments the next day. And that's the beauty of now — there's another one tomorrow.

At the end of the day, you are the only one responsible for your own actions. This article may impact you, and it may not, but I can assure you that your actions while under the influence impact more than just yourself. Your mind and body are intertwined, but alcohol acts as a catalyst toward severing that connection. Enjoy these nights with your friends, but don't let alcohol play a part in impairing the people you love. There's a difference between having a good time and not remembering those times. Stay true to yourself, and don't let substances change the person that you are.

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