When women stop loving their men, they always let out signs, but rejection is something generally most men are not capable of accepting.

The era of love and virtue has long gone. Now love becomes a fantasy and a business. Some women turn out to be some kind of products for sale at the auction and relationships to a no-holds barred context where everything goes. Most women in every society, especially those in the developed countries, including the United States, are in collusion with the corrupt forces of nature where life is moving in the fast lane.

Now relationships and marriages are based on greed, mirage and personal ambitions. Back home in Haiti, the old fashion way of choosing and accepting a partner was based on the person’s social and educational background and family’s history. In contrast, relationships today involve women having multiple partners and what the men have, the car they drive and what women in the inventory of their partners' assets realize they can extract from their men. As such, they become arrogant, disrespectful, belligerent and Delilah look-alike. In this case, love is non-existent or completely obliterated in the back seat.

Therefore, an honest man who, unknowingly, gets involved in a deceitful relationship like that is up for a trick or a gamble where the woman always ensures that she wins and that the man always falls victim in the name of love and for love sake. At this point, the woman starts emitting all forms of negative signals to the man. Through those signals, women are expressing their dislike to their men. They are not usually upfront by saying “I am not in love with you anymore or I don’t want you anymore."

Those women use their own perverted and scripted version of behavior and communications to relay messages to their men. This is women's way of saying no when some poor men naively insist in saying yes. What, then, results from all this are verbal and physical abuse, death threat and eventually separation or divorce. Men need to get out of the quandary of love to give meaning to the tell-tale signs of their women. For those immoral women, once cornered, are capable of charging at a faster speed and strength than a lioness. However, recognizing those signs would help overcome and survive any such tumultuous relationships or marriages.

Men need to pay close attention to the following ways women act when they are not in love anymore. I’ve done some research on the matter and found these scenarios: women who are not in love don’t care about what goes on in their men’s lives-They don’t find their men attractive any longer-They wouldn’t put efforts to make the relationship better or show their men that they care-No more communications-they don’t care about how their men feel-They don’t do anything special anymore-No attention and physical intimacy dies off.

Women who get involved in a union with such an evil intent deeply scar their men and place in the process a heavy burden on society, especially when innocent children find themselves in the melee. Women with such an unethical behavior are allowing their reputation to wither away. For life in the fast lane is dangerous and short-lived. Voltaire, a French philosopher of the 18th century, has said it well: "the genius has a century, after which it must degenerate."

In the same context, youth and a good look eventually fade away some day; at a certain point, the flamboyant lifestyle formally withdraws itself; material possessions that were unfairly acquired may no longer be available for use or for contemplation; and above all, those bad women reach a point where they are wrinkling into retirement from delinquent actions. After all, it is now the time for those dangerous women to reflect and to mend fences.

However, the long-term goal for those promiscuous women is to change their ways to become virtuous, loving and productive members of society. Those qualities would reflect in our culture, in the peaceful way of loving and living we would share and in the lasting prosperity we would enjoy. At last, men and women in every relationship or marriage would be able to say yes in a common accord and mean it courageously.

“We don't develop courage by being happy every day. We develop it by surviving difficult times and challenging adversity,” Barbara De Angelis.