Recently, I was in car accident but I just wanted to talk to you about when the lights go out.

I felt the impact and closed my eyes, for a minute the lights went out. My body jerked, I heard the air bags go off and panic set in. Eyes still shut I was trying to find the light, I didn't see the light at all. I was scared, I have been here before where there is no light, and the only thing you see is darkness. I opened my eyes and white smoke was everywhere then the light went on. I saw hope and I saw that we will be alright. By the way guys, we are all okay.

But, even though we are all okay, Let's talk about when the lights do go out.

Darkness is scary. You walk it only sometimes, until someone pulls you out or you find the light yourself. Like anyone else, I have gone through things that left me in a dark place. A bad relationship from my past, it didn't teach me that I didn't deserve the light. Light to me means safety. And reminds me that things will be okay, that I can overcome anything. The relationship made me feel lonely, that no one was here besides myself. Anyway, I finally reached out for help, finally I was able to see the light.

So here's my advice to you, when the lights go off, remain calm and find your way. If you need help, do not hesitate, ask for help and find your light. Light is beautiful, providing us with warm, loving feeling and we all deserve to feel safe and happy.