When You Find The Blair To Your Serena

When You Find The Blair To Your Serena

Serena and Blair are the perfect pair!

When you find the Blair to your Serena, you are not only gaining a best friend but also an additional member to your family, a future bridesmaid, and a forever valentine. When you find your soul sister, you know it's meant to be and then you end up with pretty crazy stories and amazing things that only come when you've found your soul sister! Here's how you know you have found the Blair to your Serena:

1. Accidental twinning/sharing clothes

Your styles are so similar that quite often, you end up showing up to the same place in the same exact go-to outfit. On top of that, you frequently raid each other's closets and share clothes because come on, what are best friends for?

2. Choosing outfits

To avoid the stress and chaos of #1, you plan outfits ahead of time and send pictures of potential trend-setting clothes to get the best input you can from none other than your soul sister! Much like Blair and Serena, anything calls for spontaneous shopping trips!

3. Car rides

The jam sessions you have with this person cannot be topped by anyone else --especially the car jams, am I right? So every time you plan to go somewhere, you get excited!

4. Selfies

Along with #2, you will frequently send mass amounts of selfies to your BFF to have her choose which one to post on social media, and of course the endless amount of selfies you take together! It's okay, everyone does it!

5. Confidence

A soul sister should boost your confidence and make you feel awesome about yourself whenever you need it. Most importantly when you are together, you feel like nothing can stop you!

6. Her family is mine

And my family is her's! Sometimes I think my family misses her more than they miss me!

7. Favorite place

Every time you two are together, it's tradition to go to your favorite spot - just like Blair and Serena we love our coffee! We have spent more time and money at Dutch Bros than I'd like to admit!

8. Someone to laugh with

Laughing is never a surprise when with your soul sister! Most of the time it's all you do when you are with each other!

9. Partner in crime

Much like Blair and Serena, you can find yourself in some mischief while looking absolutely amazing!

10. Honesty

When you have a soul sister, honesty is the only policy! She will give you real, upfront advice even if it isn't quite what you want to hear.

11. You have a fan

Much like Blair and Serena, my soul sister makes me feel like I'm on top of the world 24/7 and provides me with support in everything I do, and I try to do the same for her! A little love and encouragement goes a long way!

12. Funny tweets

Whenever I stumble across a funny tweet, I always send it her direction because I know she will find it humorous and appreciate it as much as I do!

13. Gifts

I get so excited to show people I care about them by buying little gifts that remind me of them or even just buying them a cup of coffee to show them I love them!

14. Texting

If people saw any of your text messages to each other, they might just think you are crazy. I'm talking about road rage rants, full conversations with GIFs, and even the ugly pictures you send back and forth!

15. Package deal

You and your soul sister are a two-in-one deal! If you invite one of us somewhere, more often than not, (unless it's a date, but even then one of us would be at the same place monitoring) we will both be there to stir up a little trouble and have some fun!

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8 Things I Have Not Thanked My Best Friend Forever For In, Well, Forever

Thank you for always being the best.

1. Being there through it all, even if you're not "physically" there

We can't always be together, but you have never completely "left" me behind and have been there with me through thick and thin and I am so grateful.

2. Being my biggest cheerleader

Thank you for not only being there through the bad, but also celebrating my victories with me. I can always look forward to telling you good news because I know you'll be happy right along with me.

3. Answering my "important" phone calls

Whether it's a "he texted me back!!!" phone call, or an "I found a gray hair, please help!!" phone call, you pick up the phone and hype up with me no matter what.

4. Being selfless, and going above & beyond to make sure I know I'm worthy

This explains itself and I am so grateful for that.

5. Brushing my hair when I don't feel like it

Okay, this probably sounds silly... But it's the greatest struggle to brush my hair and I'm glad you do it for me sometimes!

6. For being there through all of my mini-crises

You already know what I'm talking about here...

7. For talking me out of things

If it wasn't for you talking me out of things, I'd probably have quit my job, be dating a horrible guy, got my eyebrow pierced, etc.

8. Making me a part of your family

I'm too lucky to have you all as my second family.

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The Reality Of Friendships After Coming Back From College

Things change. . . or maybe they stay the same & you just grew up.


It's all different.

You come back half expecting everything to go back to the way it was & half expecting everything to be completely different.

Truth of the matter is, people change.

Some people realize how big the world is after heading off to college and everything in their perspective changed. They're different in a sense. They got to taste a new style of life, a new form of community, and even a new type of friendship. What was once the best to them doesn't fulfill them any longer.

That's the sad part. Everything that once made you the happiest just doesn't cut it out anymore. You realize what a true friendship is. You realize who your true friends are. You even realize what it means to have a real, wholesome friend.

Sadly, half the friendships during high school are kept alive simply due to the fact that they're what's there at the moment. They're the people you see everyday. In a sense, they are your convenience so why push them away? And if you do, you're just alone because there is nobody else.

After leaving for college and coming back, I learned so many things about friendships. I learned what it means to truly want to have someone in your life instead of just having them because they're, well, there.

A true friend will walk miles to get you your favorite coffee from Java and bring it back to you so you can study an extra hour to ace your final. A true friend will skip lecture to comfort you as you cry about such an irrelevant boy in your life. A true friend will stay up for hours, eat ramen, and watch your favorite Netflix series with you when you're feeling lazy. A true friend will go the extra mile to make you happy.

I'm not saying I didn't have any real friendships here at home, because I seriously do. I just realized exactly how many I have. If I'm being completely honest, I could tell you that the amount of true friends I have back at home can be counted on one hand. . . but you know what? It fills my heart with joy knowing that I have five freaking rock star friends at home rather than 20 empty ones. So to the girls that have stayed by my side from here at home, thank you & just know that I love you guys today and everyday.

The purity of a real friendship is so valuable, and if it means that you had to get away to find it then that's okay. The best things in life are found outside of your horizons, and if you feel like you're settling with the group of friends you have just know that it's okay to go out and find your people. Just like I did.

Reality is, sometimes the friendships you had in high school compare nothing to the friendships you make after that.

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