When You Find The Blair To Your Serena

When You Find The Blair To Your Serena

Serena and Blair are the perfect pair!
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When you find the Blair to your Serena, you are not only gaining a best friend but also an additional member to your family, a future bridesmaid, and a forever valentine. When you find your soul sister, you know it's meant to be and then you end up with pretty crazy stories and amazing things that only come when you've found your soul sister! Here's how you know you have found the Blair to your Serena:

1. Accidental twinning/sharing clothes

Your styles are so similar that quite often, you end up showing up to the same place in the same exact go-to outfit. On top of that, you frequently raid each other's closets and share clothes because come on, what are best friends for?

2. Choosing outfits

To avoid the stress and chaos of #1, you plan outfits ahead of time and send pictures of potential trend-setting clothes to get the best input you can from none other than your soul sister! Much like Blair and Serena, anything calls for spontaneous shopping trips!

3. Car rides

The jam sessions you have with this person cannot be topped by anyone else --especially the car jams, am I right? So every time you plan to go somewhere, you get excited!

4. Selfies

Along with #2, you will frequently send mass amounts of selfies to your BFF to have her choose which one to post on social media, and of course the endless amount of selfies you take together! It's okay, everyone does it!

5. Confidence

A soul sister should boost your confidence and make you feel awesome about yourself whenever you need it. Most importantly when you are together, you feel like nothing can stop you!

6. Her family is mine

And my family is her's! Sometimes I think my family misses her more than they miss me!

7. Favorite place

Every time you two are together, it's tradition to go to your favorite spot - just like Blair and Serena we love our coffee! We have spent more time and money at Dutch Bros than I'd like to admit!

8. Someone to laugh with

Laughing is never a surprise when with your soul sister! Most of the time it's all you do when you are with each other!

9. Partner in crime

Much like Blair and Serena, you can find yourself in some mischief while looking absolutely amazing!

10. Honesty

When you have a soul sister, honesty is the only policy! She will give you real, upfront advice even if it isn't quite what you want to hear.

11. You have a fan

Much like Blair and Serena, my soul sister makes me feel like I'm on top of the world 24/7 and provides me with support in everything I do, and I try to do the same for her! A little love and encouragement goes a long way!

12. Funny tweets

Whenever I stumble across a funny tweet, I always send it her direction because I know she will find it humorous and appreciate it as much as I do!

13. Gifts

I get so excited to show people I care about them by buying little gifts that remind me of them or even just buying them a cup of coffee to show them I love them!

14. Texting

If people saw any of your text messages to each other, they might just think you are crazy. I'm talking about road rage rants, full conversations with GIFs, and even the ugly pictures you send back and forth!

15. Package deal

You and your soul sister are a two-in-one deal! If you invite one of us somewhere, more often than not, (unless it's a date, but even then one of us would be at the same place monitoring) we will both be there to stir up a little trouble and have some fun!

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I Blame My Dad For My High Expectations

Dad, it's all your fault.
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I always tell my dad that no matter who I date, he's always my number one guy. Sometimes I say it as more of a routine thing. However, the meaning behind it is all too real. For as long as I can remember my dad has been my one true love, and it's going to be hard to find someone who can top him.

My dad loves me when I am difficult. He knows how to keep the perfect distance on the days when I'm in a mood, how to hold me on the days that are tough, and how to stand by me on the days that are good.

He listens to me rant for hours over people, my days at school, or the episode of 'Grey's Anatomy' I watched that night and never once loses interest.

He picks on me about my hair, outfit, shoes, and everything else after spending hours to get ready only to end by telling me, “You look good." And I know he means it.

He holds the door for me, carries my bags for me, and always buys my food. He goes out of his way to make me smile when he sees that I'm upset. He calls me randomly during the day to see how I'm doing and how my day is going and drops everything to answer the phone when I call.

When it comes to other people, my dad has a heart of gold. He will do anything for anyone, even his worst enemy. He will smile at strangers and compliment people he barely knows. He will strike up a conversation with anyone, even if it means going way out of his way, and he will always put himself last.

My dad also knows when to give tough love. He knows how to make me respect him without having to ask for it or enforce it. He knows how to make me want to be a better person just to make him proud. He has molded me into who I am today without ever pushing me too hard. He knew the exact times I needed to be reminded who I was.

Dad, you have my respect, trust, but most of all my heart. You have impacted my life most of all, and for that, I can never repay you. Without you, I wouldn't know what I to look for when I finally begin to search for who I want to spend the rest of my life with, but it might take some time to find someone who measures up to you.

To my future husband, I'm sorry. You have some huge shoes to fill, and most of all, I hope you can cook.

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Stop Assuming Your Queer Friends Are Going To End Up Falling For You

News flash: if you're my friend, the chances of me falling for you are slim to none.

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Ever since I came out my senior year, I've encountered bumps of my friendships due to my sexuality. I think people understand gay, lesbian, and bisexual identities rather well. However, there are other members of the LGBTQ+ community that isn't as understood as well.

I identify as pansexual but start using the term queer. Essentially, I don't have a preference if someone identifies as female or male. When it comes to love and relationships, I care about the quality of the person and if I'm getting the love and respect I deserve.

However, to some of my friends, they seemed to become afraid. They distanced themselves in our friendships in fear I would end up falling for them.

News flash: if you're my friend, the chances of me falling for you are slim to none. You are my friend for a reason. If I liked you, I would honestly be too nervous to talk to you.

It's nice to know to have that kind of self-confidence where you think everyone has a crush on you. That's the attitude to have because you are a pretty great person. However, sorry to break it to you, but you just are not my type.

There is absolutely no reason to cut off a friendship just because you don't understand. Your queer friends would probably like you to ask questions. It can be a sign you care about them and showing support. There is nothing wrong with asking questions either. When you're in class and you don't know anything, then you ask a question. When you are getting to know someone, you ask questions. Even if you knew this person for a while, ask away!

I think there is a stigma of not knowing something and feeling embarrassed. However, it shouldn't be this way. We should embrace the unknown, learn, and grow from it. It's 2019. It's all about being open-minded to differences. We have to do better for the next generation.

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