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What You Learn Living With An International Student

And she might just become your new best friend

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What You Learn Living With An International Student

Just around this time last year, I received an email about campus housing for my freshman year. Before I arrived on campus, I had heard just about every horror story of “going random” for roommates. Surprisingly, however, I wasn’t nervous at all.

Since I was going to a college in-state, I was expecting a girl from the next town over. But after exchanging a few emails with my future roommate, I learned that she was not only out-of-state, but also from another country.

Maria is from Norway.

Before I met Maria, I knew absolutely nothing about Norway except that it is a country in Europe. I honestly thought it was an island until I bothered to look at the country on a map.

On that hot, sweltering move-in day last August, we clicked instantly and became fast friends. We exchanged giggles and eye-rolls during goofy orientation activities as well as drool over pictures of food on Instagram. Early on in our relationship, I learned that we actually aren’t that different from one another.

We have great conversations and I learn so much from her. It’s fascinating to hear what crosses over culturally from the United States to Norway. As an American, I assume the world knows our culture. Occasionally, I would make some references to Maria and she wouldn’t get them. For the most part, however, our pop culture is relatively the same thanks to the Internet. They have Netflix in Norway so we were able to gush and bond over shows.

Language is another interesting component to our relationship. During the beginning of the year, I would teach her some American slang and she tried to teach me some words and phrases in Norwegian. She caught onto English phrases right away, while I struggled to pronounce simple Norwegian words. Although I usually grasp languages with ease, I have only mastered Norwegian dog and cat sounds—“voff” and “mjau.”

Since Norway does not have Thanksgiving, Maria came to my house over break to celebrate the holiday with me and my family. It was a lot of fun spending time with her and being her tour guide when we visited the National Gallery, the White House, and other monuments in Washington—something we DC natives hardly ever do.

In all honesty, I probably would have survived my freshman year with a roommate who I wasn’t as close with—let alone from another country—but I doubt my experience would have been half as great. I loved just being able to talk to Maria about anything—even if we were just complaining about how the dining halls had grits instead of oatmeal that day.

Maria is an incredible person and I am so grateful to have made such a wonderful friend my first year in college. She and I have fun either going out to parties or staying in and eating junk food and watching Gilmore Girls. Even though I have known her only a year, I have learned so much from her, as well as how differently an international student experiences going to college in the United States compared to your typical American student. Maria has become one of my closest friends and confidants and I know she is someone I can count on.

This summer, I’m teaching myself a bit of Norwegian with the hope that I can communicate with Maria in her native language. It has taken me a while, but I am slowly mastering words and phrases. With all my efforts, however, I mainly hope that maybe, just maybe, I might be fluent enough to read her snapstories.

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