LDRs: Long Distance Relationships. I'm sure by reading that, most of you had already cringed at the thought of it. Oh, the dreaded distance. We all have heard the tragic stories of how distance is the worst, and I've even had someone tell me, "I wouldn't wish distance on my worst enemy."

OK... by the sound of that, I was expecting a *dun- Dun- DUUUUN* after it.

Sure, I can attest that distance is a pain in the butt at times, and yeah it is pretty hard, but what isn't? Just like anything, LDRs aren't for everyone, and that is completely understandable. However, if you are or about to be in a long distance relationship, and you're questioning it due to the tragic stories of two lovers separated by time and space, I suggest that you continue reading.

There are actually many benefits of being in a long distance relationship. Of those, you learn the value of time, you can guarantee that the relationship isn’t purely physical, and you focus more on planning a future together.

Time is valuable in long distance. Although time may seem like a curse at times, it is always a blessing. Every moment is a constant countdown. A countdown from when you will see the person next, to how much longer you have left with them. You appreciate each moment that you have together; even the slightest things can get you excited when you see the person again. You cherish each moment, because time is limited.

With a long distance relationship you can guarantee that the relationship isn’t purely physical. Long distance allows you to really get to know the person on an emotional level. You talk about a lot of things and reach a deep level of trust that probably would've taken a longer time to reach if you had been with that person physically each day. The constant communication helps bring each other together. In long distance, you talk far more than you normally would, and that strengthens the emotional bond. In long distance, you focus more on your future together. Long distance isn’t forever, and you plan for when it will end, and what you will do when it does. You set goals together. Distance causes you to evaluate your future and set a time where you two will finally be together.

In the end, it is your life, and you know what is best for yourself.

But I suggest on keeping an open mind. Don't get scared, because the beauty of it all comes out of taking that leap of faith.