What My Tattoo Means To Me

What My Tattoo Means To Me

And why I will never regret it.

Growing up, we have always been told to never get a tattoo. Why? Because getting a tattoo means you will be deemed unprofessional and unfit for any future job or career. It means that people will look at you differently, that they won't want to do business with you because of the ink under your skin. Growing up, we have always been told to never get a tattoo, but getting one might be the best move you ever make.

For most people, the tattoo they get permanently inked onto them has great meaning. Whether it be for a parent, a struggle that was overcome, or an important piece of your life, it's incredible to have that reminder with you wherever you go. It's amazing to be able to look down and see that symbol, those words, or that picture, that sparks positive words, energy, and thoughts in your head.

For other people, tattoos are simply art, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Just as we have freedom of speech, we have the freedom to do whatever we may wish to our bodies, it does not change who we are as a person on the inside or out in the workforce. It's a beautiful thing, that people love themselves enough to create living, breathing artwork, to be on display for everyone to see and not care if people don't appreciate their canvas.

My tattoo means everything to me. It means strength, it means courage, it means bravery, it means overcoming obstacles I never believed I could climb over. My tattoo reminds me every single day that I am a better person because I allowed myself to reject societal norms, to push aside the idea that I won't get hired because of the ink underneath my skin. If someone doesn't want to work with me because I have a tattoo, or two, or 30, that says nothing about me, and everything about them. If someone is willing to pass up my skills and talents for something as simple as a tattoo, then so be it, I am better off elsewhere where I can live and work freely and openly.

Getting a tattoo is something that has changed my life forever, and not just because it will stay on my skin forever, but because of the constant reminder it serves as to me. I can wake up every single day now, look at it, and truly believe that I can take on whatever the world may throw at me because that extremely important piece of my life is forever stuck on me for me to never forget.

So next time you hear someone telling you to never get a tattoo, or telling you that you will regret it, remember that its you who will benefit from it, no one else. Only your opinion matters. Don't worry about the wrinkles when you get older, either. Wrinkles are only a sign that you have lived, you have grown, and you have prospered. Just as you have changed, your tattoo, your constant reminder, will change along with you.

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I'm The College Girl Who Likes Trump And Hates Feminism, And Living On A Liberal Campus Is Terrifying

I will not sugarcoat it: I don't feel safe on my own campus.


I will get right to the point: being a conservative on a liberal college campus in 2019 downright terrifying.

At my university, I'm sure about 90% of the population, both students and faculty, are liberals. They are very outspoken, never afraid to express their views, opinions, and feelings in several ways. There are pride events for the LGBT community, a huge celebration for MLK day, and tons of events for feminists.

Then there's the minority: the conservatives. The realists. The "racists," "bigots," and "the heartless." I am everything the liberals absolutely despise.

I like Donald Trump because he puts America first and is actually getting things done. He wants to make our country a better place.

I want a wall to keep illegals out because I want my loved ones and me to be safe from any possible danger. As for those who are genuinely coming here for a better life, JUST FILL OUT THE PAPERWORK INSTEAD OF SNEAKING AROUND.

I'm pro-life; killing an infant at nine months is inhumane to me (and yet liberals say it's inhumane to keep illegals out…but let's not get into that right now).

I hate feminism. Why? Because modern feminism isn't even feminism. Slandering the male species and wanting to take down the patriarchy is just ridiculous.

I hate the media. I don't trust anyone in it. I think they are all biased, pathological liars. They purposely make our president look like the devil himself, leaving out anything good he does.

I will not sugarcoat it: I don't feel safe on my own campus.

I mostly keep my opinions to myself out of fear. When I end up getting one of my "twisted" and "uneducated" thoughts slip out, I cringe, waiting for the slap in the face.

Don't get me wrong; not everyone at my university is hostile to those who think differently than they do.

I've shared my opinions with some liberal students and professors before, and there was no bloodshed. Sure, we may not see eye to eye, but that's okay. That just means we can understand each other a little better.

Even though the handful of students and faculty I've talked to were able to swallow my opinions, I'm still overwhelmed by the thousands of other people on campus who may not be as kind and attentive. But you can't please everybody. That's just life.

Your school is supposed to be a safe environment where you can be yourself. Just because I think differently than the vast majority of my peers doesn't mean I deserve to be a target for ridicule. No one conservative does. Scratch that, NO ONE DOES.

I don't think I'll ever feel safe.

Not just on campus, but anywhere. This world is a cruel place. All I can do is stand firm in my beliefs and try to tolerate and listen to the clashing opinions of others. What else can I do?

All I can say is... listen. Be nice. Be respectful of other's opinions, even if you strongly disagree. Besides, we all do have one thing in common: the desire for a better country.

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Dear Young Voices Of America, Stand Up, Speak Up, And Do Something

Our time is now.


Dear young voices of America, I think we can both agree that we are sick of being told we are America's future while simultaneously being told our opinions don't matter. Now I personally do not listen to the people that tell me I'm better seen than heard; however, I know there are people that are a little timider when it comes to raising their voices. I am here to encourage you to be loud and speak up on topics that matter to you. There is no better time than the present to make your voice heard. Whether you are advocating for change in your school or the government, your opinion matters and is relevant.

We are the future of our country. How are we supposed to evoke change and reform if we can't have our voices heard? I call bullshit and I think it's time to take action. Even if you're the first or only person to advocate for your cause, be that person. Don't be afraid of anyone that tries to stand in your way. The only person that can stop you from speaking up for yourself and your cause is you. No matter how many nos you have to hear to get a yes or how many doors you have to knock on to get someone to open up, never give up. Never give up on your cause, never give up on yourself or the people you're representing, just don't do it. There is someone out there that supports you. Maybe they're just too shy to raise their voice too. Be encouraging and be supportive and get people to take a stand with you.

It is never too early or too late to start thinking about your future or to take action. But don't hesitate to say something. The sooner you start speaking up, the sooner you have people joining you and helping you, and the sooner you start to see and experience change. So get up, make that sign, write that letter, make that phone call, take part in that march, give that speech. Do whatever you feel fit to get your point across. Shout it from the rooftops, write it on your profile, send it in a letter, ignore everyone that tries to tell you to give up. Maybe they don't understand now, maybe they don't want to listen, maybe they're afraid to listen, but the more you talk about it and help them understand what exactly you are trying to get across, they will join you.

Even when it feels like you have nobody on your side but yourself, I am on your side. I will cheer you on, I will march with you hand in hand, I will write letters and make phone calls and help you find your voice. My life changed when I found my voice and yours will too.

So dear young voices of America, the time is now. Your time is now. Don't be afraid of the obstacles that you may have to face. Someone is out there waiting for you, waiting to grab your hand and march on with you. As Tarana Burke once said "Get up. Stand up. Speak up. Do something."

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