Every girl knows "those articles" that tell you what to look for in a boyfriend or tells you that if your relationship doesn't have these random certain aspects it's going to fail. Well I am sick of tired of seeing them. And here's why:

1. Not all relationships are the same.

Some people need different things or express their love in different ways. Some boys want to text you all day and some boys, like mine, open your message and don't respond for three hours simply because they forgot.

2. Girls overthink things enough already.

You are just adding fuel to the already very large fire. When you write all these reasons that a relationship might fail and girls read it, they start having doubt in their partnership and that could be what ends their relationship. They could read something that says because you fight all the time your relationship won't work and they'll remember the one time three weeks ago that they argued with their S/O about where to eat and think their relationship is doomed to fail.

3. Different women need different things.

Don't tell me that if my S/O doesn't agree with everything that I say our relationship is doomed. Some girls might like that in a man but people like me would rather be challenged. The point is that there is nothing wrong with either of these things and no one should be telling you that there is.

4. It honestly worries me.

To see what girls think boys "should" honestly really worry me. Do they really think that boys are perfect? I feel bad for them when they start looking for this perfect man that doesn't exist. Will their own relationships work out or will they be constantly be nitpicking what their S/O is doing? I really do wonder about these things.