“This was the best day of my life” is a phrase I commonly say on days with unforgettable moments. However, nothing will compare to one specific day, the absolute best day of my life. When I was six years old, my sister was born. The moment I sat on the hospital chair and held her fragile, newborn body in my little arms, I knew I could never live without her again. I was so thrilled to show her everything I knew and teach her everything I knew. I never could have imagined that I would gain so much knowledge from her. Although I continue to try and direct her down the right path from the lessons I have learned, I am grateful that I am not the only getting some sort of guidance.
How to genuinely trust someone.
Like a lot of people, trust is fragile. Once it is broken, the repair is a huge burden. I never have to worry about this with my sister. The secrets we tell each other usually never leave our bedrooms. She is someone I can tell my inner most thoughts to with no fear and that is so special.
That I will always have a partner in crime.
Yes, by this I mean being troublemakers. We are always a team when our parents are against one of us. She proves to me that I am never going to be alone to fight my own battles. She would definitely be in the passenger’s seat if I needed someone to rob a bank with me.
To take pride in someone.
Being proud of another person is an amazing feeling. I am lucky enough to say that I am proud of my sister every day. Her confidence, kindness, and intelligence continues to inspire me. Sometimes I wonder why I had to turn out to be so average with such an incredible sibling.
Not to let others judge me.
One time when I feel completely comfortable in my own skin is when I make my sister laugh. This probably happens when I act absolutely insane or say something dumb. She shows me that I can be myself.
Unconditional love.
She is someone that I know will never break my heart. No matter what I have done or will do in the future, she will always be there to give me a hug. I also know that I will always be there to return the love.
To be the best version of myself.
I am not going to sit her and tell you that I have never made mistakes or bad decisions. Yet, every time I do something that I am not particularly proud of, I think of her. She encourages me to be the best role model I can be and to make her honored to have me as a sister.
