I'm a very outgoing person and I always have been. I've never been shy and always the type to strike conversations with strangers. I have a very open and honest personality and I'm not afraid to embarrass myself or my friends. At the same time though, I am the type of person that would rather spend time alone than engage with a crowd, even though I wouldn't have a problem socializing and having fun, I just like my time alone.
Its true, I don't like big crowds, parties, large get togethers because I am the type of person that likes to spend one on one time with people, or like I said before, time alone. My friends sometimes find it odd that I will deny going out to a party or other social gatherings because they know I'm so outgoing and a fun person to be around. Well the truth is, I just don't like doing that kind of stuff as much as I like putting in a movie and watching it by myself or with a friend.
I'm all about having fun and of course I'm in college, but nine out of ten times I will choose staying in my apartment over going out somewhere with a bunch of people. It doesn't get boring to me, or repetitive, it is just very relaxing and calming. And I like this about me. I like that I can be perfectly content with just myself and I don't feel the need to go out and be around a lot of people.
That's the way I am in general with friendships too. Ever since I was younger I've always been the type to have a few close friends rather than a million friends who aren't really that close to me. I've always had about two or three best friends in my circle, people I could count on no matter what. Still today I have three best friends who I feel completely comfortable with and would rather spend time alone with each of them then going out and hanging out with a bunch of girls who don't really have my best interest in mind.
I like being the type of girl who can have fun with a big crowd because I am, I just choose not to participate most of the time. Most people would say it's "lame" or "uncool" but for the one time I do choose to go out and engage myself with a lot of people I have a genuinely good time and I would rather do that once in a while than get burnt out on it like a lot of people I know do. I could never get burnt out on just spending time with myself though because it is so relaxing and enjoyable. I love being outgoing, but I also really love being introverted in a way.







