I struggle with being “too nice.” Whenever I have to do something that I don't want to do but somehow got roped into it, someone will comment that I am just too nice. I'm always seen as really friendly. I'm always seen as someone you can run over and I'll still forgive. It's something I wish I could change about myself. But, how do you do that?
1. You are always accused of flirting
2. People try to take advantage of you or they do and you don’t notice it
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3. You normally say yes to everything and you feel bad when you have to say no. Most of the time, you want to say no, you just don't want to hurt their feelings.
You say this:
But you really want to say this:
4. It is seen as a weakness
5. You can't ever really tell someone how you really feel because you don't want to hurt their feelings BUT you also can't stand them so then you are just stuck.
This means that it takes a lot for me to confront someone.
6. I see the good in everyone. Because I am nice, I see everyone else as being nice when they could just be using that to their advantage.
