When you join a sorority, joining a greek family can be very rewarding. You have the chance to be a little and get to have that bond that is indescribable to many people. Greek families are the reason why so people stay greek. It's that bond that you will have throughout your college years. That following year, you decide to take a Little of your own. This will be the most nerve-wracking situation that you'll have to experience. It can be very new to anyone that is taking a new greek family member. As a Big, I know how rewarding it can be to take a new family member.
When you take a Little, you usually take one while your pledge class does, too. It's a new experience that many women go through every year. Being a Big is something exciting and new because it's a transition for your entire greek family. While, you and your best friends are taking littles at the same time, you sometimes may be named a GodBig to that future Little your BFF is taking. Now the term is similar to Godparent, the roles can be similar, as well. If the Big says no, the Little knows that the GodBIg will always let you get away with anything. Being a GodBig can be just as rewarding as being a Big, because it's an honor to be close to someone that looks up to you as another role model. Many GodLittles will refer to you as GodBig and it's shown that they look up to you just as much to you, as well.
Being a GodBig can change how you act and you become more responsible because you have more responsibility now that you have another sister looking up to you. You'll find that being named a GodBig means you have these newly initiated members that will seek advice or come to you for a situation. There's a connection that many wouldn't understand with a GodLittle and GodBig. You will enjoy them and their company because you know that you've impacted their life. But, you don't know they've impacted your life until you notice it. It usually doesn't happen until you stop seeing their smiling face or the echo of their laugh in the chapter room. You'll think of the times that they created memories or wanted to take that picture when you were having a bad hair day. Being a GodBig is a special title, don't take it for granted. Be there for them, listen to what they have to say. They look up to you as a role model and it's an honor to be called GodBig.
This Big/Little season remember your GodLittles as they take their Little. Think about what your BFF is going through, with becoming a GrandBig. You may also look up to your GodLittles as they take their first little. They learned on how to be a Big or GodBig from other sisters in the chapter. But, don't forget about the GodLittles that were taken too soon. They still hold a place in your heart as this semester continues. It's a gift to be called GodBig from across the room or during recruitment that picture they want. Don't take it for granted, ever.
