Here is to the people who are dating girls that "aren't like every other girl" or a girl that is "different" from the rest. You like her because she isn't like any other clingy, immature girls you've dated. Here are the reasons why she does the things she does and why different can be a good thing.
1. She is completely up front with you.
You will know where you stand with her. There are no playing games, just a real adult relationship.
2. She isn't superficial and doesn't need you to shower her with compliments.
Complements and gifts are awesome but she doesn't need them to feel validated. This girl is self-confident and self-aware. When she looks good, she knows it.
3. She can be a private person.
This girl doesn't need everyone to know where she is or who she is with. It might take her months to tell people about you, not because she is ashamed of you, or wants to keep secrets, she would rather just keep you to herself.
4. She is independent and she knows it.
She knows her capabilities and likes to do things on her own. Yes, help is nice but not required.
5. She knows the mistakes she has made in relationships.
She might move very slow in relationships due to past experiences. She has learned and hopes to move on from them. Just give her time.
6. She enjoys her space.
When she tells you, “Go out, have fun with your friends,” she means it. She wants you to have a life outside of your relationship, but she expects the same. She isn’t clingy and neither should you.
7. She enjoys real communication.
This girl enjoys sitting and talking for hours over texting any day. She values communication. Don’t get upset when she doesn't text you back for hours -- she is just a terrible texter.
8. She doesn't care about petty things.
She doesn’t care about small things. She won’t get upset if you don’t text her back right away or if you don’t make her your Woman Crush Wednesday on Instagram every week (she would probably prefer you didn't do that last one actually).
9. She likes to be happy.
She enjoys having a good time. The best quality you can have is humor. Keep her laughing and you're halfway in.
10. She can be stubborn.
Trust me when I say, just let her have her way and nobody gets hurt. She is hard headed and won’t take no for an answer.
11. She’s worth it.
If you take the time to learn her habits and little quirks, you will learn to love them. She has a beautiful soul, and her “different” might just be the best thing you have ever had.
