Your first loss or love is going to hurt you forever and ever and that's just the cold, hard truth. Whatever else happened in high school happened and that won't change. Moving on starts in college. The only way to really "move on" is to do things for yourself and be a little selfish.

1. Splurge.

Updating your closet is moving on.

2. Spend time with your best friends.

Friends and family are life long. So if you're mourning over your boyfriend or girlfriend, just remember that you're never alone.

3. Spend alone time with yourself.

Sometimes it's tough being in a room full of happy people. Go be alone and sleep.

4. Write about your day.

Writing should help relieve whatever you're going through. Make a private Twitter or Instagram and let your best friends follow it. Just complain and say whatever you want because only your friends are going to see it!

5. Go to concerts.

You feel more outgoing at concerts, and you meet really cool people who have the same music taste as you.

6. Make tie dye.

You can never mess up anything you tie dye. Dye shirts, socks, sheets, literally whatever you want.

7. Cut your hair.

Get that hair style you've always wanted.

8. Work more hours.

Working sucks, but it gets your mind off things. Also, who doesn't love money?

9. Go to a party.

Go get wild with your friends.

10. Block everyone.

Get rid of all the negativity in your life. Even if you have to ruin Snapchat streaks.

11. Be patient.

Moving on is a long process. It's a part of growing up. Remember that what's in the past is supposed to stay in the past and there are better things to come. Have a positive attitude when you can. If you really try to move on, you can