We Can't All Be Lawyers

We Can't All Be Lawyers

Or engineers. Or scientists. Or architects.

“What do you want to be when you grow up?”

We can all remember a time when this question was fun. It was often paired with naming your favorite color and favorite food. You just knew that you were going to be a baker. Or an artist. Or a fireman.

It was all fun and exciting… until it wasn’t.

One day, that question went from cute to stressful, because all of a sudden you were going off to college and had to choose something. A life expectancy of nearly 80 years, and you have to choose one thing. One major. One area to specialize in. For most of us, this task is daunting.

If your dreams are to become a nurse, a lawyer, a doctor or an engineer, you might not know the struggle. You have been praised constantly for your choice. A choice that will lead to a good job and an even better paycheck. You have chosen something that will make your parents proud, and strangers will nod in approval when they learn of your studies. You are the person that people like me wish they could be like. But we can’t.

We don’t love those things. Even if we are capable of getting through organic chemistry or calculus III, why would we want to? To pursue a degree that everyone tells us will be successful? Our entire lives, math and science have been so entirely emphasized that creativity and the arts have taken a back seat to the point that they feel unimportant. Where did this come from?

We constantly have to see people’s pursed lips and double takes after telling them that our major is creative writing or art history. People constantly ask us, "What are you planning to do with that?” They wonder why someone would choose such an empty major.

But without us, the world would be less beautiful and a lot less extraordinary.

If someone fails a math class, they're seen as dumber or lazier than everyone else. But if someone fails an art class? “Oh, it’s not like you need that class, anyway.”

College has gone from being a place of learning and education to a place of job preparation. Never before has college merely been four years of jumping through hoops in order to obtain a stamp of approval to show your future employers. College students used to be the ones who learned how to speak impeccable English, the ones who provided society with new inventions, ideas and innovations.

Now, college has turned into glorified high school with students who have been sculpted by the system, and guess who doesn’t fit into the system like everything else? Us. The arts and humanities programs at colleges are slowly becoming neglected, therefore sapping the education of those of us who choose to do what we love, instead of what will make us the most money.

I'm tired of being condemned for choosing to spend my life being happy and creating beautiful things instead of chasing fortune. Just because we don’t know the exact job title we will have the second we're handed our college degree doesn’t mean we are failures. Even if society and the people around us make us feel that way sometimes.

I could never be a lawyer, but I will argue in favor of creativity for as long as I live.

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10 Things I Threw Out AFTER Freshman Year Of College

Guess half the stuff on your packing list doesn't really matter

I spent the entire summer before my freshman year of college so WORRIED.

I also spent most of my money that summer on miscellaneous dorm stuff. I packed the car when the time finally came to move in, and spent the drive up excited and confused about what the heck was actually going on.

Freshman year came and went, and as I get ready to go back to school in just a few short weeks (!!), I'm starting to realize there's just a whole bunch of crap I just don't need.

After freshman year, I threw out:

1. Half my wardrobe.

I don't really know what I was thinking of owning 13 sweaters and 25 T-shirts in the first place. I wear the same five T-shirts until I magically find a new one that I probably got for free, and I put on jeans maybe four times. One pair is enough.

2. Half my makeup.

Following in the theme of #1, if I put on makeup, it's the same eyeliner-mascara combination as always. Sometimes I spice it up and add lipstick or eyeshadow.

3. My vacuum.


One, I basically never did it. Two, if I REALLY needed to vacuum, dorms rent out cleaning supplies.

4. Most of my photos from high school.

I didn't throw them ALL away, but most of them won't be making a return to college. Things change, people change, your friends change. And that's okay.

5. Excess school supplies.

Binders are heavy and I am lazy. I surprisingly didn't lose that many pens, so I don't need the fifty pack anymore. I could probably do without the crayons.

6. Cups/Plates/Bowls/Silverware.

Again, I am lazy. I cannot be bothered to wash dishes that often. I'll stick to water bottles and maybe one coffee cup. Paper plates/bowls can always be bought, and plastic silverware can always be stolen from different places on campus.

7. Books.

I love to read, but I really don't understand why I thought I'd have the time to actually do it. I think I read one book all year, and that's just a maybe.

8. A sewing kit.

I don't even know how to sew.

9. Excessive decorations.

It's nice to make your space feel a little more cozy, but not every inch of the wall needs to be covered.

10. Throw pillows.

At night, these cute little pillows just got tossed to the floor, and they'd sit there for days if I didn't make my bed.

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We're All Thinking It, I'm Saying It: Too Many People Are Running For President

I'm all for options, but man, do we really need 24? I mean, I can barely pick a flavor of ice cream at Baskin Robbins let alone a potential President.


There are, currently, 23 Democrats running for President. On the Republican side, there's, of course, Trump, but only one other candidate, former Massachusetts governor Bill Weld. Democrats have a whole range of people running, from senators to congressmen, a former vice-president, and even a spiritual advisor. We can now say that there are DOZENS of people running for President in 2020.

Joe Biden has been leading the pack for quite some time now. He was even leading polls before he announced his campaign. Although he is the frontrunner, there really is no big favorite to win the nomination. Biden has been hovering around the mid-30s in most polls, with Bernie Sanders coming in second. Other minor candidates in the hunt are Elizabeth Warren, Pete Buttigieg, and Kamala Harris.

After the surprising defeat of Hillary Clinton in 2016, Democrats have become electrified and have a mission to take back the White House after winning back the House of Representatives in 2018. There are so many people running in 2020, it seems that it will be hard to focus on who is saying what and why someone believes in something, but in the end, there can only be one candidate. This is the most diverse group of candidates ever, several women are running, people of color, the first out gay candidate, and several more.

There could be a problem when it comes to debate time. I mean, the first debate is next month. Having around 20-plus people on stage at the same time, debating each other kinda sounds like a nightmare. How can someone get their point across in the right amount of time when someone else is going to cut them off? Debates are usually around an hour and a half. So, if you divide it up, each candidate would get just under five minutes to speak. That would be in a perfect world of course.

Democrats seriously believe that they can beat Trump in 2020. They say they have learned from the mistakes of 2016, and have the guts and the momentum to storm back into the White House. By July of next year, there will be only one candidate left. Will they be able to reconcile the divide during the primaries? We will see. It will surely be a fun election cycle, so make sure to have your popcorn ready and your ballot at hand to pick your favorite candidate, no matter what party you lean towards.

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