There are so many nights when I feel unwanted or unloved. I'm 20 years old and I've never been in a relationship. So many people I know are in relationships, are married, getting married or having kids.

Part of me feels like a straight-up loser. Throughout high school, I was the only one in my group of friends that wasn't dating someone. I was the third wheel more than once. I was so lonely. Not that I wasn't happy to see my friends happy, but it sucks being the only person without someone special in their life. I prayed so many times to God that He would put the right guy in my life in His timing. Going through my first two years of college, three of my friends got married, one got engaged, and one is now expecting a baby boy. I'm so happy for them, but sometimes I try and question God and ask Him when is He going to put that special someone in my life.

After much praying, I've learned that I already have someone in my life that makes me feel wanted. I already have someone in my life that loves me unconditionally and that's Jesus. Jesus has such a special place in my heart. While, I get impatient with the fact that I'm still single at 20, God has something so great in store for me. He wants me to work on becoming the right person before he puts the right person in my life.

So ladies, hold out for the one God has for you. Don't settle for less than you deserve because you will only end up disappointed. Your Prince Charming, future husband, man of God, is coming. Just have faith and patience that God will place that man in your life at the most perfect time.