Once a young woman grows up to be a legal adult and moves out on their own, goes off to College or lives with family and works, it is very important for her to strictly be focused on herself during this time of change.
This is the time when you can strictly focus on yourself, your own personal goals, and live the way you want before sh*t gets real. Whether single or in a relationship, do not lose yourself trying to satisfy others needs before your own. Remember to always take care of what you needs.
Nowadays, it seems like everyone is trying so hard to grow up fast and play house, while trying to motivate and take care of others that are their same age. Stop. Have fun, get your goals accomplished first, and help the others when you're ready and have gotten your "to do's" out of the way.Worry about yourself, do not take on any other burdens when it is unnecessary and focus on strengthening yourself in all aspects of your life.
A woman who has her stuff together and uses her brain is very fierce and appealing - your booty & body are just more fine attractions. Work on getting your body in-shape or staying fit or whatever makes you happy because being confident with your body, like you are with dominating your goals and life, is just another blessing.
Being able have an intelligent conversation and not depend on another is like hitting that last cup on the table during beer-pong, receiving a paycheck being way bigger than you expected or that feeling when you weigh yourself after putting in work at the gym and see some positive results. Be on your A-game at everything within yourself: studies, career, knowledge, body, life. If you always give everything 100% of your effort, the results with only benefit you in the long run.
In this generation, women tend not to receive the credit they deserve, being consider the weaker gender in society. It is a woman's job to prove statistics wrong and build themselves up to the greatest they can, a true queen. Secure your own future and goals first, then you will know where to go from there. You are beautiful with or without makeup, whether a size 0 or 22, whether blonde or brunette.
Carry yourself with confidence and do not settle for anything less in all aspects of your life. Whether rich or working towards being rich - as along as you got yourself, knowledge, strength, belief, and hardworking techniques and respect yourself nobody will ever be able to tell you otherwise.
