A high school teacher once told us, “Whether you realize or not, you’re always someone’s princess.” So always act like one.

Growing up hating yourself, your body does not seem to be a good ideal lifestyle just because someone else does not satisfy with your look. It’s their problem. You’re gonna learn that the definition of beauty is very subjective. You’re pretty in your own way. You’re unique; your beauty is distinguished. We aren’t born to be a clone. You will realize that people who think you don’t reach their “standards” of beauty are ones who are too afraid of letting others be better than them so they have to to push people down to make themselves feel better. Their eyes aren’t bright enough to see the charm in you. Dress up, wear makeup, spend more time to take care of yourself. They tell you too much about the “fake” beauty, but it’s not. Do whatever makes you feel pretty. Always keep in mind you have to stay pretty, stay refined, because it’s the key for confidence.

But a princess cannot be uneducated. Be wise. Nothing can beat intelligence. Your appearance gives you confidence, but your knowledge is what keeps you from losing your confidence in your life race. Don’t hesitate to take risks and accept challenges. Don’t growing up with an idea of marrying a rich man and enjoying life. A powerful woman is someone who is emotionally independent and financially independent. You don’t need anyone to make your life better. You make your own achievements, product your own inventions and create your own success. Don’t wait for anyone or anything. You control your own life and direct it.

Don’t spend your youth chasing anyone because you don’t need a prince to be a princess. Stay friendly but sassy, make them chase for you. Don’t give away your love so easy; it’s precious. Don’t waste your time healing your heart when someone keeps breaking it. When someone does not treat you right, move on. Everyone deserves to be treated as how they think they value. Don’t let people step on you. Don’t ruin your life just because someone chooses to not be with you anymore. When someone does not want you, just think that they can’t afford to be in the same level with you anymore.

Treat yourself as you think you are worth because no one would do it better than yourself. And grow up to be a queen.