Top 13 Quotes For The Struggling College Girl

Top 13 Quotes For The Struggling College Girl

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1. “Drink some coffee and pretend you know what you’re doing.”

When you need that slight kick in the rear to get you going, there’s nothing like caffeine to do the trick. Also, don’t forget that “fake it ‘til you make it” is a totally acceptable plan of action as long as you intend to actually not be faking at some point.

2. “Life becomes easier when you learn to accept the apology you never got.” –R. Brault

When you find yourself struggling with letting go of something that happened to you but you never really got closure, or the person who did it never really apologized, you have to learn to accept that they don’t see their error, and they might never. You have to be strong enough to channel your inner Elsa and let it go because there’s no point in being miserable for the rest of your life.

3. “Whatever sprinkles your donuts.”

For when the only thing you can say in response to someone’s actions is, “WHY?!”

4. “You are only going to be as good as the people you surround yourself with, so be brave enough to let go of those who keep weighing you down.” –Eric Thomas

For when you find yourself mixed up with people or things with which you really don’t want to be involved, and you need help letting go and encouragement that everything is going to be okay.

5. “Maybe I don’t know but maybe that’s okay.” –Jon Bellion

People tend to ask college students a lot of questions including, but not limited to, “What’s your major?” “What are you going to do with that?” “What’s your 5-year plan?” “What’s your 10-year plan?” It can get incredibly overwhelming, and I think we often forget that we don’t have to know the answer right now. A lot of times, our 1-year plans don’t work out, so how are we even supposed to have any clue about a 10-year? It’s okay to not know every single thing about the future. However, this sadly does not apply to course material. That’s kind of necessary.

6. “It’s okay. You forgot who you are. Welcome back.”

Sometimes, we get so caught up in the craziness that is college that we forget who we are. We get so stressed and absorbed with making connections that we don’t stop to think about if anything we are doing is actually what we want to do. Sometimes, you’ve just gotta take a step back, take a couple breaths, find out where you are, and figure out how to get to where you want to be. Easy-peasy.

7. "If you were able to believe in Santa for like 9 years (or more), you can believe in yourself for like 5 minutes.”

The doubt is REAL. All the time. Constantly. It’s so hard to believe in yourself when everything seems to just keep pushing you down and piling up. There’s nothing like fond Christmas memories and hearing Will Ferrell scream, “SANTA!!!” to get you back on track.

8. “Life is short. Laundry is eternal.”

Laundry never really seems worth doing. In order to do laundry, you must also be creating more. It’s an endless cycle, and it’s awful. I like to use this time to do homework or take a break and relax with my headphones in and a solid TV show on. Remember to enjoy your laundry breaks. Eventually, you’ll have to do actual stuff while your laundry is doin’ its little thang.

9. “Be messy and complicated and afraid and show up anyways.” –Glennon Doyle Melton

MESSY. Everything is messy and everything is complicated. As much as I try to keep my room clean, life gets complicated and suddenly it’s a disaster that I just really don’t want to deal with. But you can bet that when I show up (to most places), I at least try to make it seem like I have my life together and like there isn’t a single dust bunny anywhere in my living quarters. Lol.

10. “I have to be successful because I like expensive things.”

Sometimes, a girl just needs a little bit of being materialistic to get her back on track. I won’t lie. I like expensive things, but who doesn’t? Expensive things make you feel like you’ve got yourself together because you can afford them. If your goal in life is to be able to shop without worrying about price tags, so be it. As long as you work for it, go buy that $2,000 bag. You earned it.

11. “I never look back, darling. It distracts from the now.” –Edna Mode

Another past thing. Edna is honestly the coolest thing ever because not only is she a brilliant character with some killer lines (see above), but she is also just a killer character in general. She is a force to be reckoned with and basically everything I aspire to be. Except I can’t design clothes. But she is POWERFUL and COMMANDING, even with her tiny frame. She exudes confidence. Own it.

12. “A well-read woman is a dangerous creature.” –Lisa Kleypas

I’ve always loved to read, and sometimes those people come up in my life that act like loving reading is a bad thing. I let those people go. I don’t need that kind of negativity in my life. Books help to expand horizons and show adventures that people could only dream of. What kind of person hates on that? Not me.

13. "Oh, the places you’ll go."–Dr. Seuss

Remember when you heard this book a gazillion times and kept thinking “ENOUGH ALREADY!”? Oops. Too bad. I’m bringing it back. When you get so overwhelmed that you can’t seem to think straight and all you want is to sleep but you can’t because your mind is racing… calm down, and remember that everything will work out in the end and you are going to kill this whole college-thing and be that super successful woman that your little self dreamed of being.

Now go forth and rock this world.

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To The Boy Who Will Love Me Next

If you can't understand these few things, leave before things get too involved

To the boy that will love me next, I need you to know and understand things about me and my past. The things I have been though not only have shaped the person I’ve become, but also sometimes controls my life. In the past I’ve been used, abused, and taken for granted, and I want something real this time. The guys before you were just boys; they didn’t know how to treat me until it was too late. They didn’t understand how to love me, until I broke my own heart. Before you truly decide to love me I want you to understand these things.

When I tell you something, please listen.

I’m my own person, I want to be loved a certain way. If I ask you to come over and watch movies with me please do it, if I ask for you to leave me alone for a few hours because it’s a girl’s night please do it. I don’t just say things to hear my own voice, I say things to you because it’s important to my life and the way I want to be loved. I’m not a needy person when it comes to being loved and cared for, but I do ask for you to do the small things that I am say.

Forgive my past.

My past is not a pretty brick road, it is a highway that has a bunch of potholes and cracks in it. I have a lot of baggage, and most of it you won’t understand. But don’t let my past decided whether you want to love me or not. My past has helped form who I am today, but it does not define who I am. My past experiences might try and make an appearance every once in a while, but I will not go back to that person I once was, I will not return to all that hurt I once went though. When I say those things, I’m telling the complete and honest truth. I relive my past every day, somethings haunt me and somethings are good reminds. But for you to love me, I need you to accept my past, present and future.

I’m just another bro to the other guys.

I have always hung out with boys, I don’t fit in with the girl groups. I have 10 close girlfriends, but the majority of my friends are guy, but don’t let this scare you. If I wanted to be with one of my guy friends I would already be with him, and if you haven’t noticed I don’t want them because I’m with you. I will not lose my friendships with all my guy friends to be able to stay with you. I will not cut off ties because you don’t like my guy friends. I have lost too many buddies because of my ex-boyfriends and I promised myself I wouldn’t do that again. If you don’t like how many guy friends I have you can leave now. Don’t bother trying to date me if you can accept the fact I’m just another bro.

I might be a badass, but I actually have a big heart.

To a lot of people I come off to be a very crazy and wild girl. I will agree I can be crazy and wild, but I’m more than that. I’m independent, caring, responsible, understanding, forgiving, and so such more type of woman. Many people think that I’m a badass because I don’t take any negatively from anyone. Just like we learned when we were younger, “if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say it at all.” Most people can’t do that in today’s world, so I stick up for myself and my friends. I don’t care what anyone thinks about me, or their option on how I live my life. The only thing I care about is being able to make myself happy. Even though I’m an independent woman, understand that I do have a big heart. Honesty when I truly care for someone I will do just about anything they ask, but don’t take advantage of this. Once you take advantage of this part of me, all respect will be lost for you.

I’m hard to love.

Sometimes I want to be cuddle and get attention, and sometimes I don’t want you to talk to me for a couple hours. Sometimes I want you to take me out for a nice meal, but sometimes I want a home cooked meal. Every day is different for me, sometimes I change my mind every hour. My mood swings are terrible on certain days, and on those days you should probably just ignore me. I’m not easy to love, so you’ll either be willing to find a way to love me, or you’ll walk out like so many others have.

I’m scared.

I’m scared to love someone again. I’ve been hurt, heartbroken, and beat to the ground in my past relationships. I want to believe you are different, I want to hope things will truly work out, but every relationship has always ended up the same way. I’m scared to trust someone, put my whole heart into them, just to be left and heartbroken again. I sick and tired of putting my whole body and soul into someone for them to just leave when it is convenient for them. If you want to love me, understand it won’t be easy for me to love you back.

When “I’m done.”

When I say “I’m done” I honestly don’t mean that I’m done. When I say that it means I need and want you to fight for me, show me why you want to be with me. I need you to prove that I’m worth it and there’s no one else but me. If I was truly done, I would just walk away, and not come back. So if I ever tell you, “I’m done,” tell me all the reasons why I’m truly not done.

For the boy who will love me next, the work is cut out for you, you just have to be willing to do it. I’m not like other girls, I am my own person, and I will need to be treated as such. For the boy that will love me next, don’t bother with me unless you really want to be with me. I don’t have time to waste on you if you aren’t going to try and make something out of us. To the boy who will love me next, the last thing I would like to say is good luck, I have faith in you.

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