To The Ones Who Fear Change
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To The Ones Who Fear Change

Change is scary, but change is good.

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The thought of change makes my stomach drop. It is one thing that I have always feared. However, lately, I have been thinking about all the different changes I have overcome so far in my life.

I have watched my parents divorce. I have lost all communication with a family member. My mom had to sell our childhood home that had so many memories. I have moved away to college where I knew no one. I could go on and on about all the change that has occurred in my life. Instead, I want to tell you why change is a good thing.

Whether it's attending a new school or starting a new job, stepping out of your normal, everyday comfort zone is always a big adjustment. It is always the first leap that is hardest, but once you take that first big leap, you can overcome anything.

I am sure you have heard the saying, "everything happens for a reason." Well, I am a firm believer in that. With all the sudden changes, there have been many different positive outlooks on life. I have also been introduced to lots of different people who are now a special part of my life.

I want you to just think about all the change that you did not see coming. From there, you need to think of all the good things that came from that change. I will tell you one good thing that came from mine!

After we sold our childhood home, we moved to a very small town in South Georgia known as Bronwood. We lived smack dab in the middle of this country town in an old historic home and right across the street was Bronwood Baptist Church. Now, before we moved, our family never went to church. Not for any specific reason, it was just never apart of our Sunday routine. One day, however, we decided to attend the church across the street. From then on, we attended every Sunday. Our faith grew and continues to grow every day, and we have gained so many new friendships that have continued to influence our lives drastically.

With all the downfalls and unexpected changes I have faced, I could not be more thankful for the person I have grown to become. I have so much more confidence and nerve to try so many new things, more than I ever had before.

I encourage everyone to always step out of their comfort zone, and take that leap of faith. Never hesitate to add a little bit of change to your usual lifestyle. Change is good for the soul!

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