To The Homesick Freshman... It WILL Get Better

To The Homesick Freshman... It WILL Get Better

Even if you're not homesick, you're kind of homesick.

Dear Freshman,

Syllabus week is overwhelming, to say the least, even though people try to act as though it's dipping your foot in the pool of college. More realistically it's like being thrown into the pool and then yanked out by the nape of your neck at the end of each class. It's important that you remember everything isn't going to happen all at once for the whole year, although it will feel that way sometimes.

Have you called your parents yet? Now, think hard about this. You've probably called at least one of them, maybe even more than once. But did you call your dad three times and never get the chance to talk directly to your mom? Go call your mom, just in case. You're going to start missing them and they'll miss you too. Even if they're busy when they call, they're probably not too busy for your call.

Sometimes you'll get lonely, even with your great roommate and couple of friends you made from orientation activities. These new friends aren't substitutes for your family, and they won't ever be, but things will get a lot more comfortable as you settle in.

Join that club that looks like fun. At first, you'll feel like you're on the outside of things, but before you know it you'll be a part of every inside joke.

When you're looking at your friend's social media, and thinking that they're adjusting better than you or that they have settled in with no problems whatsoever, remember what your own Instagram looks like. No one is having the kind of semester or year or life they're trying to show you on their social media.

Don't beat yourself up over it. Just take a deep breath.

Before you know it, it will be your senior year and you'll be stressed over making time to see all of your friends, being the officer in the club you joined, what you'll do to your graduation cap and just how the four years went so fast.

You got this, freshman. You so, undeniably, got this.

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To The Teacher Who Was So Much More

Thank you for everything

I think it's fair to say that most people remember at least one teacher who had a lasting impact on them. I have been incredibly lucky to have several teachers who I will never forget, but one individual takes the cake. So here's to you: thank you for all you have done.

Thank you for teaching me lessons not just in the textbook.

Although you taught a great lecture, class was never just limited to the contents of the course. Debates and somewhat heated conversations would arise between classmates over politics and course material, and you always encouraged open discussion. You embraced the idea of always having an opinion, and always making it be heard, because why waste your voice? You taught me to fight for things I believed in, and to hold my ground in an argument. You taught me to always think of others before doing and speaking. You showed me the power of kindness. Thank you for all the important lessons that may not have been included in the curriculum.

Thank you for believing in me.

Especially in my senior year, you believed in me when other teachers didn't. You showed me just what I could accomplish with a positive and strong attitude. Your unwavering support kept me going, especially when I melted into a puddle of tears weekly in your office. You listened to my stupid complaints, understood my overwhelming stress-induced breakdowns, and told me it was going to be okay. Thank you for always being there for me.

Thank you for inspiring me.

You are the epitome of a role model. Not only are you intelligent and respected, but you have a heart of gold and emit beautiful light where ever you go. You showed me that service to others should not be looked at as a chore, but something to enjoy and find yourself in. And I have found myself in giving back to people, thanks to your spark. Thank you for showing me, and so many students, just how incredible one person can be.

Thank you for changing my life.

Without you, I truly would not be where I am today. As cliche as it sounds, you had such a remarkable impact on me and my outlook on life. Just about a year has passed since my graduation, and I'm grateful to still keep in touch. I hope you understand the impact you have made on me, and on so many other students. You are amazing, and I thank you for all you have done.

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