To the guy I wasted my time with,
Here are some pointers for the next time you attempt to win a woman over because I'm officially closing the door on you:
Convenience isn't romantic.
Your desire to hang out with me when you're bored is not endearing. Only stopping by when you're in the area is no form of affection either. You solely want to see me when you need some. And I'm done putting effort towards someone who can't lift a finger for the girl who'd give you an arm.
Save your excuses for the devil.
"I've been so busy" is no legitimate reason why you never answered my text from three days ago. Especially since you have the time to be all over social media. We see you liking her selfie from 30 minutes ago.
Your hesitance makes everything clearer.
You want to be with me, but you're all over her. Was it even a question to say hi to me at the bar? Take your head nod back with your too-cool-to-acknowledge-what'
I refuse to date a man who acts like a boy.
Refer to the following article: The Difference Between Dating A Boy And Dating A Man.
I shouldn't be this exhausted in what should be the most exciting stage.
It shouldn't be this way-- the constant confusion and doubts; the lack of trust and hesitations. I'm tired of keeping up with your games and I'll forfeit to find what I purely deserve. He'll call when he says he will and only promise what he'll actually follow through with. He'll make me smile at the thought of his name, not panic at the thought of his existence. He won't be you, and that's already a promising start.
Love,
The girl who doesn't have time for your petty bullshit