To The "Good Luck Chuck" Girl
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To The "Good Luck Chuck" Girl

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To The "Good Luck Chuck" Girl
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Dear Good Luck Chuck Girl,

I am writing to tell you that you are not alone. I too used to be right where you were. I thought that every boy who had talked to me, would soon be in a relationship. And yes, maybe I was that good luck charm for them to find who was right for them, but what about me? What's wrong with me? Am I really that bad? Literally every guy I have talked to in my past has found someone, and one person is even engaged now. As I felt salty about this at first, I became happy for them because everyone deserves to find love. BUT WHAT ABOUT ME? I really didn't know how to break this terrible cycle. The boys at my college were either looking to just hook up or trying to find a relationship. And for me, the relationship guys always seemed too clingy or just plain weird. I thought about this all last semester. I even used tinder to try and find boys who maybe weren't so terrible as the ones I was finding in frat basements. Turns out, they were pretty terrible too.

So, my biggest piece of advice to you, is to stop looking. Stop trying to find "Mister Right" because you are probably going to just find "Mister Right Now". Have fun, let loose, and enjoy being single because in a few short years you will probably either be married or in a very committed relationship. Your prince will find you, don't you worry. I found this theory to work will because once you stop looking, you are given exactly what your were searching for. Yes, this is coming from a girl who had been the "good luck chuck" girl for 4 years! I finally stopped looking and now, somehow, I'm in a relationship and happy as ever. So, try becoming the woman you want to be instead finding a man. Because once you do this, the perfect guy for you will come along, I promise.


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