There is nothing wrong with ending those weekly nights at the clubs, or heading to the bar almost every night of the week. As someone whose never fully enjoyed all those outings, I'm sure you could say that "I just haven't gone to the right place, or haven't had fun yet." Truthfully, I would say that I actually love spending time at home, and binge-watching my latest show craze, rather than going to a club where you've got a pound of makeup that's now running down your face, in an uncomfortable outfit with a random person breathing down your neck. I would rather enjoy the company of my friends, roommates, or parents coming by. I would rather spend more of my time (and possibly money) on something that will leave more memories and a lasting impact than a night out on the town.
Don't get me wrong, going out with friends is fun, and you can still have those nights or weekends, but it doesn't always have to be the cliche of a club. Going out can be going to a restaurant to catch up with old friends. It can even be going to a bar for a few drinks, but you can also have nights like that at home.
As you get older, you probably won't feel like doing all these things anymore. It's "For the younger generation" but for someone whose in that generation, I'm ready to move on myself. So don't think you're not fun, or cool because you would rather chill at home on a Friday night. Don't make yourself feel like that one friend who doesn't "like to have fun" just because your views on fun are different from those who would rather go clubbing.
Because letting your hair down may not always mean go partying. It can mean you're actually throwing your hair into the highest messy bun, in your sweats on the couch with junk food watching some cheesy show with your friends.
So to the girls who are done with partying, know that you're not alone. Know that there are many of us who don't want those things anymore. There are many of us who want to settle down, move out, and enjoy our own lifestyle.
At the end of the day, you know yourself best.
