Dear you, I never thought I would say it, but I’m really happy he found you. As much as it hurts me to not have him in my life anymore; I am glad he has you. I’m glad he is able to be happy again and that he is able to love again.

Please look after him.

Make sure he is continuing to better himself, whether it be in school or sports, please keep pushing him. He has so much potential and please do not let him forget that. Laugh at his witty jokes, and don’t take his compliments lightly. Notice the little things he does, sing along to his favorite songs, and every time you hug him, make it like it’s the last time you ever will.

My only hope is that you really truly love him. That you consistently get butterflies by being in his presence. Keep reminding him of how much you love him, because he will truly appreciate it more than you’ll know. Protect him and guide him through life, just as he will for you.

Most importantly; his family.

Please stay in touch with them. Get to know them, and connect with them in anyway you can. They are all so special and have molded him into who he is today. Thank them and love them just as much as you love him. Be there for his little sister and have some girl time with her because I know she will really look up to you. Talk with his grandma about her love of the Lord and all of her different recipes that she will share with you. They all appreciate you, so please make sure you show them you care. They are wonderful.

In everything, cherish every moment you have with him. Appreciate the fights because they will only make you two grow stronger together. Don’t give up on him; fight for him. He’s going to test your patience and push your buttons but it is only because he cares. He’s been through a lot so please help him on days when he feels weak. Make sure his relationship is right with his mom, and that he continues to live like his dad. But most of all, be his rock.

I’m really thankful he has you now.

Sincerely, the girl who loved him first.