“It’s not him, It’s me…”

No screw that… it’s definitely him.

You think that it’s you because this always happens to you. Every time you open yourself up, you get let down.

You think that by having your guard up because of all the times you’ve been let down, that you aren’t giving anyone a fair chance.

You think that because they never came back that you’re not worth it.

You start to believe that you don’t deserve love.

You start to believe you’re unfixable.

You start to think that no one will ever want you the way you are.

I’m here to tell you that you will find love, you can walk away from that boy who destroyed your heart, you’re more than worth it.

Someone who really wants you will not run away when things get tough. Someone who really wants you will work on things. Someone who cares about your well-being will not leave you stranded, regardless of the situation.

I understand how challenging it can be to not be so hard on yourself. But you are not the problem. I’m not saying every choice you make, every word you say is right. We all mess up sometimes, but if you give it your all, and apologize when you're wrong, that shouldn’t be a reason for anyone to walk away. Everyone has baggage. Everyone comes with a past. Learning to accept that is the hard part.

Don’t let anyone dull your sparkle. Prove that you’re worth it, to yourself!

Learn to let go!