To The Girl Who Has Lost Herself, You’ll Find Your Way Back
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To The Girl Who Has Lost Herself, You’ll Find Your Way Back

There is more to life than falling for someone who tears you down.

Melanie Teate
Jun 02, 2019
Auburn University
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To The Girl Who Has Lost Herself, You’ll Find Your Way Back
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Dear Lost One,

I know you woke up this morning feeling awful. I know things feel like they are so far out of reach. I know you feel lost. He broke your heart. The last couple of months everything has changed and you don't know what to do. Things get better I promise.

The fake smile you are showing on your face at this moment will one day be real. The path you want to take in life will be clear. But all this won't come from you moving on. It will come from you realizing it wasn't him who made everything special. It was you. He may have made everything better but he did not make everything great.

You are the one who lights up a room when you walk in. You are the one who dances around without a care in the world. You are the one who can make anyone laugh by just being you. Not him. So don't lose sight of who you really are.

You may have lost yourself in him. But, you can find yourself without even searching. Stop letting him tear you down and show him you are built to stand up to a fight. Don't lose yourself in someone who doesn't even know who they are.

Be great and love yourself.

Sincerely,

The one who found herself on her own.

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