Falling in love is a weird concept if you ask me. You find some human that you find attractive (physically and/or emotionally) and you decide to catch these things called “feelings” for them. Now best case scenario, said human has these “feelings” for you, too, and everything seems all fine and dandy. But then what happens when things just end and you both find yourselves moving on? What happens when suddenly, there is a new girl in his life? And what’s worse than that? Trying to be friends with someone you used to love and secretly hoping they won’t find someone to replace you right away, a lot tougher than you can imagine.
Whether it is tomorrow or maybe even five years down the line, they are going to find someone new. There is so much that you want to say to them, even if you never meet.
To the girl that loves him next, I hope you love his goofy laugh and smile as much as I did. There would be days that I would wake up to him lying on his stomach with his messy bedhead hair, but the first thing he would do was smile. We could be on the porch having a drink with our friends, laughing at stupid jokes and I could catch him looking at me with a sly smile on his face.
To the girl that loves him next, don’t take him for granted. I didn’t take him for granted, but it was nice to know that he was always there for me through any rough patch in my life. It could have been something minor, such as me getting into a stupid argument with someone, or even something a little more major. Whatever the situation, he was there making me feel better.
To the girl that loves him next, please know that while he might try and act tough, he is a real sweetheart on the inside. He’s been through a lot in his life, but he isn’t bitter about it. He’ll try and brush things off but I could tell when something was bothering him. It was a really great feeling when he first opened up to me and let everything out. He genuinely cares about his friends and family and would try and do anything for them. So please care for him like he will care for you.
To the girl that loves him next, please love him with all of your heart. Even though things didn’t work out between us doesn’t mean that I don’t care for him anymore. He was my first love and deserves the absolute best. Please love all of his flaws and perfections, his temper and his moodiness. Please love him with all of your heart.
And to the boy that used to be mine, just know that you were my ray of sunshine, my good days and bad, my everything and forever. Hopefully this next girl loves you the way I did.
