I am sure you had your reasons for letting her go. Our present day hook-up culture makes it rather difficult to really sustain a relationship. This new cultural refinement draws many into its depths. Or maybe it had nothing to do with you wanting to dip your toes into the pool of casual sex and one-night stands. Maybe you just really didn’t have those same feelings for her anymore. Either way, I commend you for your honesty. You neither cheated nor led her on. However, you did hurt her. And heartbreak, as we all know, can be agonizing.
You may or may not care, which is also OK. This is your life and you get to do with it as you please. But let me warn you just this once. Good girls do not come along very often. I’m talking about the girls who make you laugh so hard a snort escapes or tears run down your cheeks. The girls who make you feel so comfortable even when they are asleep on your already sore shoulder, drool soaking your clothes. Girls who overall just make you unexpectedly smile even when they are not around.
The kind of girls who make you so angry, but an anger that can only be tamed when brought on by them. These girls rave about you to their girlfriends, listen to you even when they have no idea what you are talking about and care about you so deeply that they worry when you come home only five minutes late, all possible catastrophes racing through their head. I could go on but good girls can be defined many times over all so differently yet having one thing in common. Good girls have this fire that burns so bright it radiates from their soul, warming everyone around them. People know a good girl when they see one because they see that light in their eyes and feel the warmth from their soul.
I am not saying these good girls are perfect human beings. By no means are any of us perfect. But it is not hard to fall in love with these kinds of girls, imperfections and all. Flaws can be beautiful and raw. These types of girls are so good yet so human at the same time. The essence of their goodness encompasses nothing but inner beauty. Many people lack this inner beauty. Many people lack compassion and empathy, but a good girl's foundation is rooted in these very concepts. In a hard, troubled world, they hold their own, and they transmit kindness while staying strong.
If you truly only lost feelings for her or knew she was not the right one for you, I hope you come across another good girl during your life. Truthfully, I do. I’m sure you are not a bad guy and only meant well by her. Even if you left her to partake in this hook-up culture, I still hope one day you come across a good girl who captivates you and helps you awaken your inner desire for strong human connection that is a completely natural fulfillment of human nature.
Sincerely,
A good girl
