It seems really easy for today’s society to jump to the conclusion that those who stay and attend community college are somehow less. However, I don’t think that it's fair for anyone to lump all CC students into one basket.
To my friends who “stayed behind,” I don’t think less of you.
Who am I to have prejudice toward someone seeking to further their education? That’s not fair. Yes, I am away at college, and yes, I do live a busy life, but just because you don’t hear from me as much, doesn’t mean that I’m shunning you for staying in the same place.
To my friends who “stayed behind,” I know you have your reasons.
I know that either money was tight, or you wanted to stay close in favor of an easier transition. Maybe you don't need a four-year degree for what you want to do. Whatever the reason, you have my support. If it wasn’t for financial aid, I myself would be right there with you.
To my friends who “stayed behind,” I don’t think that you are a slacker.
If you were a slacker, you wouldn’t be busting your butt to figure out tuition. You wouldn’t be studying and joining extracurriculars. Don’t sell yourself short just because you go to school only 15 minutes away from home (you’re a commuter, just like a ton of students on my campus).
To my friends who “stayed behind,” I wish you could see how proud I am.
I’m proud to call you my friend. I’m proud to say that we both graduated high school! I’m proud of you for not giving up just because things didn’t work out the way you thought they would.
To my friends who “stayed behind,” you are capable of anything you set your mind to.
I truly, truly believe that.
