To My Future Boyfriend
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To My Future Boyfriend

First off, congrats on dating me.

Ilana Mekler
Feb 27, 2017
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To my future boyfriend,

You're in my life because I chose you for a very good reason. Out of all the man-cubs that I could've picked, I picked you and for that, you're welcome. The qualities you have are what I have been looking for and I'm thankful for that. In the past, these boys have shown me that they aren't mature enough to be part of something real and I was sick of feeling like there was a lack of balance with feelings. You've changed the game and have proven to me that it's 50/50 and that you're more than a just a man-cub, you're a full on man-lion.

If you're the good and honest man you say you are , please stay that way. Show me that good guys do exist. Any guy can be nice, but a good man will show respect to not only me, but to his family and his pets (please have pets). Show me that you have goals and ambitions. I ask for your loyalty and for you to not make me question anything. Show me that you're committed and not here to play any kind of games.

Let's joke around with one another. Laugh at my jokes even if they aren't funny. I want to cry with you over cheesy videos online. I want to drive around at 1am because there's nothing else to do. Let's take thousands of pictures. Let's annoy the hell out of one another. You'll have to deal with my endless rants about God knows what and my terrible singing along to my eclectic iTunes playlist. Oh and I'm sorry, but you're going to have to put with my fangirl moments whenever something Harry Styles related pops up.

Ok, time to get serious. I've met some immature boys in my life. Boys who have lied, who were unsure, who were just terrible. I now know the priorities in my life and I know what I deserve. I'm not settling for a guy with good looks and zero personality. I'm picking the guy who has everything that I'm looking for and more. A relationship isn't a one way street. We need to equally communicate. We need to be each other's support systems. We need to be our own selves with one another.

A relationship is more than just attraction and personality. It's having a connection with someone that you can't explain. It's like feeling this electricity between two people that even others take notice in.

I don't know if you'll be my forever because I can't foresee the future, but you'll be my right now.

Yours truly,

Your Future Girlfriend




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