There is one thing almost every woman needs in a man: consistency. You have to make up your mind. You have to choose either to be a jerk and own it or don't and be nice. Don't make promises to me and then not text me back. Don't tell me you miss me and then call me a hoe. You've decided to stay out of my life from now on so just stay there.

We had a good few weeks but you made the decision to end it. You made the decision that I was no longer worth your time. You quit talking to me but now you're everywhere all the time. I am really tired of this happening. You promised me that you wouldn't do what everyone always does - leave and lie.

You told me you knew all my friends better than I did and that I had no right to hang out with them.

If this were a year ago, I would have listened to you and told my friends I wouldn't come around anymore. I would have told myself that in order to properly get over you, I needed to not see you at all. Seeing you almost every day has shown me that I am a lot braver than I thought. I sit there next to you night after night no longer afraid to speak my mind. You treated me like crap and expected me to just take it.

I'm grateful now, even just a few weeks later, because my friends have all reassured me that they love me. I will always cherish #leave****in2016 and #keep****outofourchat2016. Second guessing yourself sucks, but my friends helped me realize that not only am I amazing but any guy that doesn't see that is not worth my time. I am a lot more comfortable talking to guys now but I also know that I can't tell people about my past.

You knew everything about me and used it against me. I won't be doing that again.

It turns out when you tried so hard to tear me down, all you did was show me and everyone else what you really thought. You also showed me that I deserved so much more. It seems like your plan kind of backfired.....