To Those Monsters Inside My Head

To Those Monsters Inside My Head

Let them in, Let them out.
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I have faced a monster before... but never have I walked through the door he was behind, foolishly I was ever so blind.

For even when I try to hide,

forever he is able to find.

So what happens if I step in the light?

Mind tricks he plays, constant but not everyday.

For my conscience calls for me to pay attention, but not even a single ear of mine will listen.

Ah, but nothing is given to thee; you see, life is the bearer of bad news and like a leaf you will fall from its tree!

When I look for hope, I might find closed doors, but if I use people to cope, I will only find more.

For I am to be free, away from a score; wishing everyone else would stop checking the board.

For I am my own, to no kingdom will I come. If granted a thrown, I will rule only but one.

Me, myself, and I running from monsters that will forever be on my mind.

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It's OK To Be Your Family's "Emily" This Christmas

Your greatest accomplishment may be learning how to cook something other than ramen noodles and oatmeal and that's okay.
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We all know the feeling, one sibling is getting married, another landed their dream job, someone got a promotion, someone bought a house, and another one has a baby on the way.

Everyone has exciting news to share or something to brag to the relatives about, and then there's you.

You’re just a typical college student with absolutely no idea what you want to do in life.

You didn't make a 4.0 this semester or land an internship at some big name company. You aren't dating anyone, expecting a ring, or having a baby anytime soon.

You may not have anything special for your mom to brag about on this years Christmas card, yet you are still content. Your greatest accomplishment may be learning how to cook something other than ramen noodles and oatmeal and that’s okay.

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There are years of simply just finding yourself. Years of figuring out what it is you want out of life or searching for something that will finally “fuel your fire.”

Everyone’s path is different, some have more bumps, roadblocks, and flat tires than others, yet despite all of that, we all still get there.

As one of my favorite quotes states, “Don’t compare your life to others. There’s no comparison between the sun and the moon, they shine when it’s their time”

So, no matter how old you are or what stage of life you are in, it is okay to be your family’s Emily this year.

Embrace it, throw your excitement at everyone else’s accomplishments, and be thankful for where you are at.

Your time will come.

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A How-To Guide For Dating Someone With Anxiety

Loving them is easy, but knowing how to properly support them can be difficult.

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Anxiety has a tendency to take total control over someone's life--including their love life. Of course, your partner wishes this could magically disappear and have a happy-go-lucky, easy relationship like everyone else. With a little love and support from their partner, anxiety doesn't have to become a third wheel.

1. If they ask you to order for them, just do it.

Your significant other--as silly or easy as this may seem--may genuinely be really nervous and uncomfortable having to order their own food or answer a call. Save them the nervous sweats and do it for them, it takes little effort on your part but means a lot to them.

2. Be patient, consider their thought process.

Anxiety hinders everyday actions like starting a conversation, saying excuse me, and falling asleep. To someone without anxiety, things like this seem trivial and thoughtless, but someone who suffers from anxiety may worry about a small situation days before it even happens. Avoid saying things like "It's not that big of a deal" or "Here, it's so easy I'll do it." Although it's meant to be encouraging, it is usually the complete opposite.

3. Know what to do when an attack occurs.

Ask your partner what they need from you. Panic attacks are very scary and knowing how to react when one happens can really make your lover feel cared for and safe. Some people like to be held tight and have their partner help them focus on breathing, while others like to have their personal space. It's almost a guarantee that if you initiate a conversation with your significant other when they are calm and able to talk, they will surely appreciate it.

4. Reassurance, reassurance, reassurance.

One thing anxiety is great at doing is making you feel alone and question everything. By randomly letting your S/O know that you love, appreciate, and cherish them, you're about to clear their headspace and make them worry less... how cool is that? Let them know when you're driving and get home safely--I promise--when you aren't answering after a drive they think the worst.

5. Be present.

Be there for her. Of course, prioritize your life and your own mental health; however, if she calls saying she needs someone, ANSWER. Seriously, there isn't much that is more important than being an open ear and open heart for your partner, so respond when they need you. Offer a hug, a snack, an encouraging word. Whatever you can do to try and make them feel calm, go for it!

6. Encourage the good days.

Anxiety gives rise to good day and bad days. If they are having a good day and have the headspace to initiate a conversation on their own, let them know how proud of them you are! This is a huge deal for those who deal with anxiety. Tell them you think that they are doing great and encourage them to continue this good day streak. They will feel so supported! It's good to notice the attempts just as much as the dark times.

Seems overwhelming? If you genuinely love and care for your significant other, these steps to caring for their mental health will come naturally. Don't worry about doing it wrong, your significant other will notice the effort and that will mean the world to them. Just you reading this shows you care, so keep trying!

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