Every person has his or her own definition of what the term "love" means and how to express it. Falling in love for the first time could be one of the scariest, yet most exciting feelings out there. It’s true what they say- when you know, you know. Hopefully it’s also your partners first time falling in love and you can experience these wonderful emotions together. Throughout this relationship, you not only learn the true meaning of love, but you also learn a lot about life and yourself.
A few things you may learn from your first love:
Relationships are all about compromise. Having to compromise doesn't necessarily mean you're wrong. It means you value your relationship more than your ego. Remember, sometimes you must give something up in order to gain something greater.
Relationships are all about teamwork. If one person is giving 75% and the other is giving 25% it’s never going to work out, trust me.
You’re their significant other, not their parent or babysitter. Of course you want what’s best for them, but you cannot control or make decisions for them. If you don’t agree with their ways then leave.
Separate interests and separate friends are a must. Of course you’re probably into many of the same things and have most of the same friends, but it’s extremely unhealthy to always be attached at the hip. Always put aside time for yourself, do the things you love to do, and see the people you enjoy spending quality time with.
No relationship is perfect. Don’t compare your relationship to celebrities or people you see on Instagram. Some days may be better than others, but if you’re both happy that’s all that matters.
Loving someone doesn’t always mean you’re meant to be together. If someone makes you unhappy more than they make you happy, it may be time to walk away. Be true to yourself and don’t be scared just because you’ve been together for so long.
If it doesn’t work out I promise you’ll be okay. Break ups can be rough especially if it’s with someone you thought you would be with forever. Take a step back, look in the mirror, and realize that it was probably for the best. Go out, have fun, and most importantly do not feel bad for yourself. You will only grow from here.
