Things I Wish I Could Tell My Freshman-Year Self

Things I Wish I Could Tell My Freshman-Year Self

#13 is the worst.

Freshman year seems like a long time ago to everyone that’s not a freshman anymore; whether you’re a sophomore, junior, senior, or an alumni. Sometimes I look back and I wish I was smart enough to invent a time machine so I could go tell my Freshie-self some advice that I learned the hard way. Here’s a list of that advice, and if you are the little fish in the big pond now, take heed.

1. You’re not going to walk out of this school the same person you were on move in day.

College changes you, it’s a fact. It’s a place where you can begin again in a place where almost knows your past and who you used to be. Don’t be alarmed if you find yourself changing, because it might be for the better.

2. However, it’s easy to get caught in the crowd.

I often found myself being swept up by all of my new friends, and sometimes I didn’t always want to do what they wanted to do. While friendships might seem hard to come by in the new environment that is college, stay true to yourself. No “friends” would ever want you to be who you’re not.

3. I would give myself a list of names.

I wish I could go back in time and give myself a list of names of people that I would soon be unable to imagine life without, and I wish that we could start those friendships long before I actually met them, sometimes with only a semester left to get to know each other.

4. I would tell myself that it’s going to be rough.

If only had someone had warned me how much harder college is than high school. Maybe then I wouldn’t have gotten that D on my transcript first semester. I came into school not knowing how to study and it showed.

5. But also that it’s okay to leave the library once in awhile.

While studying is super important (it is what we came here to do after all) I should’ve lived a little more my freshman year. I was intimidated by the college culture and didn’t really start coming out of my shell until halfway through the year.

6. Don’t trust anyone with your safety except yourself.

If I could, I would prevent my own rape by telling myself to watch my number of drinks more closely, and to never spend the night with a “friend,” who might not have entirely honorable intentions.

7. You don’t have to be involved with everything.

You have four years ahead of you, don’t over do it.

8. You’re going to fail, a lot.

You won’t pass every test, and you’re going to get under the mean on occasion. You might walk into the wrong classroom on the first day, and you might cry (more than you want to admit). You’re going to get rejected from jobs, internships, lab positions, a capella groups, and everything else you can imagine, but don’t give up! College isn’t about being perfect, it’s about figuring it all out.

9. Your grade is just a number.

A grade doesn’t always reflect how many hours you spent studying, how many notes you took, how many notecards you made, how ready you felt before the exam. A grade is simply a grade. While grades do matter, remember to take care of yourself.

10. You’re going to appreciate your success a lot more.

During high school, getting an A on a test may have been mildly rewarding or even NBD, during college you’re going to want to scream to the world that your hard work finally paid off .

11. Pulling an all nighter will become almost “easy” and procrastination is your middle name.

Who knew that college could make you not want to do something so badly?

12. “Broke” will have a new definition.

Treasure the memories of free textbooks, because that’s a thing of the past.

13. Your body is going to change.

The freshman 15 is no joke, but by eating healthy, trying to get healthy amounts of sleep, not drinking your body weight in beer, and exercising, you can stay on track with your personal health goals.

14. Your heart will be broken (more than once probably).

College is a great place to meet people, and it can go great, and sometimes it won’t. Remember that you have a lot of time left on campus and that everything will work out in the end.

15. You will become more confident.

When you walk across the stage in four years, you will look back at freshman year and see how far you’ve come since then. You will realize that you have overcome so much, and that the beginning of college is one of the best parts of it.

Even if I did invent a time machine, I don’t think I would use it. Even though I could warn myself of so much to come, I wouldn’t be the same person I am today if I had all the answers from day one.

Cover Image Credit:

Popular Right Now

10 Reasons Your Big Sister Is The Best Person In Your Life

"There is no better friend than a sister, and there is no better sister than you."

As much as I hate to admit it, my big sister might be sort-of, slightly, cooler than I am.

Sometimes. She's the one I call when I can't call mom and the only one in the family who can properly handle my attitude. Big sisters are the people you'd choose if they weren't already family, and here's why.

1. She is your first and truest friend.

Big sisters are (literally) there from day one. They see every dirty diaper, every bad haircut, and every melodramatic breakup. They deal with every bad day and drama queen attitude and still love you in the most unconditional way.

2. Her closet is your closet.

For some reason, her clothes always look better on you. Funny how that works, huh? With a big sister comes a big closet, and who doesn't love having a double wardrobe? I'd also like to take this opportunity to apologize for the clothes I will never give back (but I'm not really that sorry).

3. She knows what it's like to deal with your parents.

Anything you could possibly be going through, they went through it first. It's kind of like having an instruction manual or a key to the future. Either way, it's always nice to have someone who will always understand the struggle.

4. There are no boundaries.

Wanna dance around in your underwear all day? Cool. Life talks while she's on the toilet? Also cool. There's no awkward moments or changing in the bathroom with the door locked. There's just the kind of freedom that only comes with siblings.

5. Thanks to her, you know about all of the cool movies/music/fashion trends from years back.

Thanks to my sister, I have every Too $hort and Ludacris song you could ever think of downloaded on my phone. I've seen every cheesy '90s movie, and when a fad from 10 years ago comes back in, I already have the hookup.

6. She tells you like it is.

We all have those friends who tend to sugarcoat everything. Yeah, sisters don't do that. She's the first person to tell me when I'm making a terrible decision and that I really shouldn't triple text that boy again. She keeps it real with me and deals with my attitude, and that's why she's the best.

7. Her home is always open.

Sometimes you just need to get away from life and binge watch Netflix, and sometimes you need all of that plus your sister. She always has her door open when you're two seconds away from losing your mind, and she also has good takeout and a dog.

8. She knows what you're capable of.

My sister knows exactly who I am and what I can do. She knows when I'm not doing my best, and when I need to be set straight. She's always there to remind me who I am and what I'm capable of accomplishing. She's always been my biggest fan.

9. She's a lot cheaper than therapy.

For some reason, my sister always knows just what to say. Even if I don't see it at the time, she's usually right (don't tell her I said that). Big sisters are like wizards, somehow they always magically make you feel like life's gonna turn out alright in the end. If she wasn't already awesome at everything else, I'd suggest she be a therapist.

10. She will always be your go-to gal.

No matter the situation, she will always be by your side. There is nothing you could say or do to make a big sister leave, and that's why they're the best. Whether it's a speeding ticket, a mean girl or you just need to laugh, big sisters are always going to be there to lift your spirits and set you straight.

I couldn't make it without ya sis, I'm sorry for ratting you out on Thanksgiving that one time, and for running away at the zoo. Thanks for taking me to see Aaron Carter even though he's way too old to still be singing "I want Candy," and thank you always for being the best role model, sister and friend I could ask for.

Cover Image Credit:

Related Content

Connect with a generation
of new voices.

We are students, thinkers, influencers, and communities sharing our ideas with the world. Join our platform to create and discover content that actually matters to you.

Learn more Start Creating

My First College Gal Pal Road Trip Was Amazing

Every girl should have one good girls trip.


In some way or another, everybody has a list of things they want to do in their lives before it's all over. After all, we're human. There's adventure to be had in every life. One thing I have always wanted to do before I grew too old and grey was go on a road trip with my gal pals to the beach. A couple weeks ago, I achieved this memorable milestone, and it allowed me to open up to new surroundings and experiences.

On this trip, I went with two of my friends from college, Kait and Lindsey, to visit my roommate Elizabeth in Virginia Beach. This was pretty big for Lindsey and I because neither of us had been to Virginia Beach before. Thankfully Elizabeth and Kait knew their way around the city, so we never got lost on our way to and fro.

Like most vacations, my favorite parts probably took place at the beach. I'm always at utter peace stomping through mushy sand or leaning down to splash the salty water that tries to knock my short self over. We took pictures and did something us college girls rarely have time to do especially in school: Relax.

The four of us did not live up to the crazed stereotype of girl trips in movies. Although I finally got a chance to sing along to Taylor Swift in a car ride with my friends, so that's always a plus. We played "Top Golf" one day, and by some miracle, I actually won the second game by a fair amount after much humiliation in the first one. We visited some of Elizabeth's family, and I finally got to meet her giant dog Apollo (I call him 'Wolf Dog'). Everyday was another chance to ask with enthusiasm: "So what are we doing today?"

Our trip wasn't like the movies where we all cried or confessed our deepest darkest secrets. Everything the four of us shared was laughter and this calm feeling of being at home, in the chaotic peace of each other's company. We understand each other a little better due to finally seeing what we're like outside of Longwood University. After this, all I can say is that we're most definitely planning the next one!

Related Content

Facebook Comments