As a society we have unspoken rules. There are norms that we follow because it’s the right thing to do. Growing up, we weren’t taught why, we were just told “because it’s what you do.” Generally, most people abide by these rules. People, like me, offer to help strangers and understand that checking out at a store is not an appropriate time to make or take a phone call. However, some people refuse to respect these rules. They live among us, blindly going about their day, while upsetting everyone with their rude, loud, and annoying habits. They disturb our day and most of the time do not care they are doing it! For those of us who follow the rules here are seven things those people do that annoy us and why they need to STOP.
Loud Cell Phone Conversations
CAN YOU HEAR ME BETTER OR DOES IT JUST SEEM LIKE I’M UNNECESSARILY SCREAMING AT YOU!? It’s 2016 people, you don’t need to scream into the phone for the other person to hear you or understand what you’re saying. Please stop doing this… immediately.
Blocking the Aisle
Let’s be honest, I don’t have all day to stand behind you while you decide which cereal you want. Please, just move your cart so I can grab my Captain Crunch and be on my way. Pay attention to your surroundings people, you are not the only one in the store.
Not Holding the Door Open
Even if both my arms are completely free, I would still greatly appreciate it if you took the time to hold the door. I understand that it might be a little inconvenient and I might be an awkward distance away from you, but it’s just polite thing to do. Side note: If you’re on the receiving end of having the door held for you, please be polite and say, “Thank you!”
Complaining About EVERYTHING
I hate to break it to you, but the fact that your McDouble came with pickles is not the end of the world. Your sandwich cost $1.50, accept the fact that you will have to pull them off and move on. Do you really think the cook who made that sandwich is working at McDonald's because they love listening to you complain? (HINT: The answer is no.)
Being Irrationally Angry
Two things. 1. Whatever you’re angry about is probably not that big of a deal. 2. The poor associate you’re yelling at is not responsible. How does yelling equate to getting what you want? In the real world, yelling just makes you a jerk. Trust me when I say this, it makes you look bad, not the person you are yelling at!
Not Respecting Personal Space
Everyone has a bubble. Respect the bubble. You may not need as much space as someone else, but let’s air on the side of caution and allow at least an arm’s length of space between you and the other person. When having a conversation with someone, if they take a step back, DO NOT take a step forward!
Not Covering Your Mouth
If you have a cold please cover your cough. This rule not only applies to children, your adult germs are just as gross. I’m sure you wouldn’t appreciate it if I sneezed all over you on your way to Subway. Let’s both be respectful adults and keep our sicknesses to ourselves.
