After being away from home for a few months now, I find myself reflecting on all the little life lessons my mom has given me over the years. These lessons help me battle both big and small- you know, those little words of wisdoms every mother gives.
1. It's okay not to be okay sometimes.
It seems kinda obvious, but there are countless times where my mother had to reassure me that sometimes it is okay to be sad.
2. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
Raise your hand if you ever cried to your mom for hours about some stupid boy who you barely even think about now *raises both hands.*
3. Quality is much better than quantity when it comes to friends.
We often got caught up in having the most friends, or even the most followers on social media, but Mom was definitely right that five great friends is better than 10 okay ones.
4. A little lipstick goes a very long way.
I personally take this one very seriously, whenever you feel like you look subpar - put on some lipstick or lip gloss. You're welcome.
5. Appreciate your siblings.
This one was hard to believe when we were younger and constantly fighting with our younger (or older) siblings. But now we totally get it.
6. Appreciate a good home cooked meal.
I used to always want to eat out, like constantly. My mom used to tell me that I should really appreciate her cooking because one day I wouldn't be able to have it anymore. Being in college now, I totally get that.
7. Trust your instincts.
I know it's hard, but sometimes you have a bad feeling about going out but your FOMO kicks in. Trust your instinct - it's totally worth it.
8. Sometimes less is more.
This goes for anything. Sometimes it's jewelry, or makeup or friends.
9. There are very few things that a nap can't fix.
Seriously, take a nap - it'll help you get a fresh look at things when you wake up.
10. Sometimes you just need wine.
No explanation needed here.
11.You don't need anyone who doesn't need you
But seriously, my mom was probably the first person to teach me about my self worth!
12. Be honest
Because, let's be real, it's not that easy. It's not as simple as just 'not lying'- if you feel some way toward someone, you should tell them!
13. Put the phone down
This one is super important. Enjoy the day, dammit!
14. Love yourself
Last, but definitely not least. There is nothing more important than loving yourself.
