I Got 99 Problems But Having Too Much Time Ain't One

I Got 99 Problems But Having Too Much Time Ain't One

Rome was not built in a day and changing all of your bad behaviors will not happen instantly, either.

In my health class, we are doing a behavior change project. So basically you start off by taking all of these quizzes assessing different areas of your health and then you study your behavior in an area where you need to improve. Next, you work on turning that negative behavior into a positive behavior. Anyways, I go through all of these quizzes and the area that was the worst in my health was my emotional health and particularly my stress issues. I cannot say that I was surprised, but just how high the results of this test really threw me.

So this quiz lists a bunch of common stressors and numbers them accordingly. Higher numbers of high stressors. All you have to do is add up the number of the stressors that you have. Before I tell you my result, I should key you in on an important detail; if your score is 300 or higher, you are at a risk for stress-related diseases. Some of these diseases include heart disease, cancer, gastrointestinal diseases, mental disorders, insomnia, and muscular disorders.

Not only was my score above 300, but it was out of the park. I scored a 749. Now that made choosing the area of interest to improve for this project incredibly easy, but the difficult part to decide was how to work on improving my stress levels. Let me tell you now. If you look up how to reduce stress, you're gonna find millions of results, but there's only so much that a person can do.

Ultimately, I decided that everything I wanted to do to improve stress was all linked to my time management. So my ultimate goal with the project is to be better about managing my time, but then you have to figure out how to do that because easier said than done. To do this I have decided to make stepping stones, or mini-goals, to contribute to my overall goal of better time management.

After deciding these mini goals, you have to create a timeline to achieve all of these goals. Rome was not built in a day and changing all of your bad behaviors will not happen instantly, either. You start with the goal that you need to wake up earlier in the day so you have more time. If you are anything like me, it is gonna take quite a bit to get me regularly waking up earlier.

So you make the goal to wake up by 9 gradually over the next two weeks. Start by setting your alarm back every 15 to 30 minutes a day. Let's say your next goal is to meal prep so you do not have to worry about what to eat. So, every Sunday morning, plan out your meals for the week and then, that day, go grocery shopping.

Maybe you specifically do not have these goals or stress isn't your major issue, but the point is to break everything down into manageable pieces. Looking at the pile of everything you need to do or even want to do is overwhelming and then you end up getting nothing done because what is the point in even trying. It will never all be done. Instead, make realistic goals and set out to accomplish anything you set your mind to.

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I Weigh Over 200 Lbs And You Can Catch Me In A Bikini This Summer

There is no magic number that determines who can wear a bikini and who cannot.

It is about February every year when I realize that bikini season is approaching. I know a lot of people who feel this way, too. In pursuit of the perfect "summer body," more meals are prepped and more time is spent in the gym. Obviously, making healthier choices is a good thing! But here is a reminder that you do not have to have a flat stomach and abs to rock a bikini.

Since my first semester of college, I've weighed over 200 pounds. Sometimes way more, sometimes only a few pounds more, but I have not seen a weight starting with the number "1" since the beginning of my freshman year of college.

My weight has fluctuated, my health has fluctuated, and unfortunately, my confidence has fluctuated. But no matter what, I haven't allowed myself to give up wearing the things I want to wear to please the eyes of society. And you shouldn't, either.

I weigh over 200lbs in both of these photos. To me, (and probably to you), one photo looks better than the other one. But what remains the same is, regardless, I still chose to wear the bathing suit that made me feel beautiful, and I'm still smiling in both photos. Nobody has the right to tell you what you can and can't wear because of the way you look.

There is no magic number that equates to health. In the second photo (and the cover photo), I still weigh over 200 lbs. But I hit the gym daily, ate all around healthier and noticed differences not only on the scale but in my mood, my heart health, my skin and so many other areas. You are not unhealthy because you weigh over 200 lbs and you are not healthy because you weigh 125. And, you are not confined to certain clothing items because of it, either.

This summer, after gaining quite a bit of weight back during the second semester of my senior year, I look somewhere between those two photos. I am disappointed in myself, but ultimately still love my body and I'm proud of the motivation I have to get to where I want to be while having the confidence to still love myself where I am.

And if you think just because I look a little chubby that I won't be rocking a bikini this summer, you're out of your mind.

If YOU feel confident, and if YOU feel beautiful, don't mind what anybody else says. Rock that bikini and feel amazing doing it.

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Internet outraged at Delhi Aunty for Sl*t Shaming

Public outrage - justified or an overreaction?


When the topic of sexual violence against women arises, women are often held responsible - because of how they dress, or how they behave, or even if they have a voice. A recent incident in Delhi showed that the mindset of people has not changed. In a video posted by Shivani Gupta, a middle-aged woman is seen defending her claim, "Women wearing short dresses deserve to be raped."

This backward mentality surrounding rape and rape culture is horrifying to see. The middle-aged woman first shamed them for wearing short clothes and when she was confronted, she told them "they deserved to get raped." She made things worse when she told other men in the restaurant to rape such women who wear short clothes.

Shivani and her friends later confronted this woman while taking the video. They wanted a public apology for her statement and followed her around. The older woman stood by her statement. Fair enough. They felt threatened by her statements and wanted an apology for her actions. The older lady, however, was brazen about her ideologies and refused to apologize. In fact, she threatened to call the cops for harassment.

The woman who made the regressive statements. Shivani Gupta

While the anger and outrage by the women who uploaded this video are justified, several questions are being raised on whether the older woman was later harassed for her statements. Public shaming is not the way to solve this issue.

"We cannot dismantle a culture of shaming by participating in it." - Rega Jha.

Now, I believe that nobody must engage in victim shaming. Nobody has the right to police the outfit one wishes to wear. It is astonishing to believe that even in the 21st century, people still believe that an outfit determines the morality and character of a person. That older woman was wrong to sl*t-shame the girls for wearing what they want. That being said, even though what that woman did was horrible, public shaming will not work. It will not change the mindset behind these ideologies. What that older woman did was akin to bullying. Publicly shaming her, stalking her facebook account or posting comments or by coercing her, you are also behaving in the same manner of bullying.

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