Throughout my college years, I’ve constantly lived in a dorm because it was pretty convenient. I had access to several resources, got to spend more time studying without having to worry about commuting home, and I was able to sleep in longer. I didn’t realize how privileged I was until it was time to move on and leave the dorms and find a new space of living.
Getting an apartment was bittersweet. While I was happy that I got to escape the dorm food, I also realized that I no longer had easy access to all my resources. I realized if I wanted to get something, I’d have to organize my schedule around the bus schedule, or else I’d be walking everywhere. I had to wake up early to make breakfast and pack a lunch for myself. I also realized I could not be lazy anymore. I wouldn’t have someone making food for me where all I’d have to do is walk into a cafeteria after class and eat it. If I wanted food I either had to make it or buy it.
While living in the dorms, I did not have to worry about cleaning the bathroom, but now I have to be responsible for keeping the entire apartment clean. I did not have to worry about making sure the oven is off, but now I do. I did not expect living in an apartment would be much more stressful.
On my first day of moving in, I realized I forgot almost half of the necessities. I was so used to the dormitory style of living that I forgot basic kitchen supplies, just “assuming” they would be handed to me. I forgot that it is necessary to bring your own soap, because nobody provides things just for free anymore. While I did forget a lot of things, making this transition has helped me grow as an individual.
Living in an apartment has taught me a lot about responsibility and taught me that as we get older, we have more responsibilities to face on our own and it teaches us how to be independent.
While this transition has been difficult for me, it started making me appreciate how privileged I am that I am able to take on this responsibility and if I ever have any difficulties, I know I can rely on family on friends to help me.
Nobody said growing up was easy, but it is mandatory.
