Success in relationships, business and realization of life depends on how easily you can negotiate with people, how agreeable of a companion you are and how attentive of a listener you are.
The first thing is to learn how to listen. Listen and hear, but do not pretend that you are listening. In fact, it is not as easy as it seems at first glance. If you are busy formulating its response until the source tells something - you are not listen. If at this time you scroll through a list of upcoming cases - you won’t listen.
This "listening" implies the presence of the here and now, 100% immersion in the moment. When you switch on the person and what one tells you. Even if you've heard something like that, what is at stake, do not break off the conversation. In the first place, so you will render their respect. Second, you can really learn something new for yourself, or look at familiar things.
Avoid unsolicited advice. Do not underestimate the people, they are able to understand everything. The problem in communication is not to show that you are "smart" and/or to feel its importance to man, to inspire confidence.
Beautifully and intelligently express others thoughts, too, need to learn. Reading books and practices to help "pump" this skill. In addition, the now quite know where talk about the pace with which to say what is better to use gestures, but on what is necessary to refuse to create the right impression.
