Lately it's come to my attention that some guys are just not nice. Some girls have made this type of guy their boyfriend, while others are still chasing him. Ladies: Break up with him or stop chasing. This is not the kind of guy you need nor deserve.

This is what you deserve:

You deserve someone who is going to chase YOU. Someone who will never once complain about it because you're worth it to him.

You deserve someone who's going to open doors for you.

You deserve someone who's going to hold your hand any chance he gets.

You deserve someone who isn't going to make you feel crazy for wanting effort.

You deserve someone who isn't going to make you feel crazy for needing reassurance.

You deserve someone who isn't going to be hot and then cold.

You deserve someone who isn't going to make you question anything ever.

You deserve someone who is going to make you laugh and forget about all of your worries and problems.

You deserve someone who builds you up when you're down.

You deserve someone who is going to make an effort to see you but also understands when you just need your space.

You deserve someone who loves your flaws instead of trying to change them.

You deserve someone who lets you know exactly where he stands instead of making you question.

You deserve someone who is honest and doesn't play mind games.

You deserve someone who is there through thick and thin.

You deserve someone who supports you and your decisions.

You deserve someone who works with you through problems.

You deserve someone who makes you feel beautiful even when you don't feel like it.

You deserve someone who loves you.


What you don't deserve is this:

You don't deserve someone who tears you down.

You don't deserve someone who makes little to no time for you.

You don't deserve someone putting in effort in the beginning and then stopping for whatever his reason is.

You don't deserve someone who makes you question anything.

You don't deserve someone who isn't going to give you reassurance when you need it.

You don't deserve someone who is sweet with words but has no action.

You don't deserve someone who is going to make you feel stupid.

You don't deserve someone who isn't going to be loyal.

You don't deserve being ignored.

You don't deserve someone who only wants you when it's necessary for him.

You don't deserve being treated like a second option.

You don't deserve someone who makes you cry.

You don't deserve someone who sends mixed signals.

You don't deserve someone who makes you feel alone.

You don't deserve someone who is going to call you names.. ever.

You don't deserve someone who doesn't make you feel loved.


Ladies, if your guy is more like the one you don't deserve... believe me when I say that it is not worth it. You deserve the whole world. And if he isn't willing to give you that, then end it. It may suck, it may hurt, and you may be really, really sad... but I promise you that you will be happier in the long run. Let him say whatever he wants about you to whoever he wants. Because regardless of what he or they think, it is okay to walk away from someone who makes you sad more than they make you happy. And it is okay to walk away from someone who isn't giving you what you need.

The right guy will come along, the one who actually wants to do all of the right things and be everything you need and more. I know it might seem like it's not going to ever happen, I've been there. But I believe it will, so you should too. And until then, don't settle.