Big sisters are one of the most exciting aspects of sorority life. You go from having one to being one in just a matter of time. To both my big and little, all I can say is thank you. Each of you holds a special place in my heart. I know how cheesy that sounds, but I am a huge believer in people coming into your life for a reason.
Biggie Smalls, I still remember our first conversation and it still gives me goosebumps. We instantly connected and related on so many deep levels. Over the past two years, you have served as an incredible role model for me. As a new member in a sorority, I wanted to feel included and cared for. You have gone above and beyond. Thank you for all of the coffee dates, lunch dates, and afternoons on front campus. I now understand that being a big is not always easy and you have truly handled yourself with such grace. It is hard to believe that in just a few months you will be graduating. However, big (pun intended) things are headed your way and I am excited to see where you are headed. While distance often changes a relationship, I know that I will always have you to confide in.
Little Bit, we didn’t talk much before the reveal, but we truly are a match made in heaven. I hope you know how much I care about your life. It is so cool to discover new things about who you are. In just a short time, you have grown and your enthusiasm for the sorority is contagious. I urge you to enjoy this time when everything is new and exciting. Time will pass and pretty soon the tables will be turned. When you start to wonder why you go to chapter every week, I will remind you of what’s important. Also, please know that there are other sisters who would love to get to know you. I encourage you to get to know those people who you don’t see often. As much as I like to be selfish with our time together, you shine so much light. It is selfish not to share it. As you like to say, 143.
I know that I am all too fortunate with these relationships and I may be an exception. Maybe you don’t hang out with your little every week. Or maybe you don’t know the first thing about being a big because you didn’t have a good example. I would like to be the first to say that I am sorry. For whatever reason, things just didn’t work out in your favor. Honestly, sometimes that just happens. But, here is the kicker. Big and little is just a title. I am sure you are probably thinking, well what does she know? Some of my best friendships have come from those who are not in my sorority family. A sorority gives you what you put in. Sometimes people don’t always know that you need to be invested in. As a sisterhood, we should be there for one another, even if she is not your big or little. We are all looking for the same thing: to love and to be loved.
