There are many naysayers when it comes to long distance relationships. However, you can't really help who you fall for. When you feel something that is just so right, how can you say no to that?
In my mind, if you want to make it work, you make it work. End of story.
And when you're with that person, the world is amazing. Everything feels so perfect. They're your best friend and you couldn't be happier. But like all long distance relationships, both partners eventually must come to the reality that you both have to go home. Then, it's a long period of time between seeing each other.
But, what many people fail to realize is that just because that person is not physically with you, doesn't mean that your relationship has any lesser value.
In fact, if anything, my LDR is so strong. It's one of the best things to happen to me, and for good reason. The keys to not only surviving the distance and the long period of time between seeing each other but also thriving as individuals and as a couple include staying in touch and communicating honestly. With honest communication, you can be open about how you both are feeling. When one of you is down, say it--holding back is the worst thing you can do when it comes to LDRs. Establishing open, honest communication from the beginning is the best thing you can do for each other.
The other key is to focus on yourself. I know, that sounds selfish, but when you're out there staying busy--whether it be with school, work, the gym, friends, etc.--time seems to tick away faster. And while that time is ticking away, you're accomplishing your goals. It's a win-win, if you ask me.
So when people tell you LDRs never work out, don't listen. Instead, listen to your heart and follow what you feel is right, and more importantly, follow these keys to LDRs and you'll be on your way!