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The Hype of Froshes

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At age 20, I’m in that awkward stage of “I can’t go downtown” and “I’m too old for froshes”. I’m stuck in the middle of officially feeling like an upperclassman and being a cougar even introducing myself to a freshman boy. So where do I go from here? I know I am not alone, and here is my social advice:  Remember you’re still 20. You’re not old. I keep thinking, I have only three months, but then I remember- it is only three months left of enjoying this experience. There is no other time in my life I will be accepted in a grungy basement full of pledges. That leads me to my second rule. Forget your surroundings. Ignore the fact that you are in the North Bottoms on your Saturday night. Explore some really strange rooms with too-short ceilings and crowded corners. Enjoy that you’re there with YOUR sorority or fraternity. Once you hit downtown, it’s an array of people. This is your chance to mingle with the freshmen, laugh at the funny things they do, and act like you’re still 18 with them.  Be risky. You have a for sure ride home! Continue doing whatever you’re doing, because you will not have to brave a walk home.  Meet the other awkward twenty-year-olds. You’re bound to catch them on the outskirts of the dance floor, on the side of the chaser table, or maybe even blending in with the rest of their chapter members. Once you realize you’re both juniors, your night will officially be okay. We are not alone.  So, go to froshes. Stop feeling like you are “too cool” to be there. You’re not. These socials are set up for you to attend. It’s normal to get ready for a 9:30 ride. It’s normal to wear heels on a Saturday. It’s even normal to come home at 1:00am, even when you know your friends won’t be in until 2:00am. The hype of froshes is all it’s cut out to be-they are fun. 

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