I know it hurts, I know what it feels like to be used. It makes you feel unworthy, that you are not good enough. He only gave you the time of day when it was convenient for him when he wanted you. Deep down you knew better, knew better than to give in. But he was good, oh so good at playing his mind conceiving games.

He made it seem like you were the only one. He said the right things at all the right times. Just when you thought you could be the bigger person and stand up for yourself, he pulled you right back in and gave that irresistible smile. Time and time again you were the player of his games.

You were confused, maybe even frustrated at times. He made you feel loved one minute but feel so unwanted the next. Your mind never stopped wondering. Wondering when he would text or call you. He said you were the best but then left you hanging as he talked to others.

Let me be the one to tell you that you do not deserve this. You should not have to play his games and be one of many. You deserve someone who not only wants you but wants you all the time. Someone who does everything in their power to make you happy. Someone who does not play with your emotions.

Not everyone is like him. I promise you someone is out there that will make everything better, that will show you what true love feels like. Wait for that person, no matter how long it might take. Never settle for anyone that is below you. Keep your standards high and find the one that is meant to be with you.

So do not let that immature boy that is making your head go in circles get the best of you. Do not give him the time of day. He will only continue to drain you, to use you. He thinks he has you wrapped around his finger, but show him who is the bigger person. Make him jealous when you finally find someone who makes you happy. It is then that he will realize what he lost and just how much he mistreated you.

From the girl who has been there.